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I know people would disagree with me but I don't think meeting people from the Internet is very good at all. Yes I've done it but it doesn't mean it was a smart idea. They always turn out to be weird and with many problems. So far on this site almost 70% I've spoken with automatically want to meet with me soon and that's a huge turn off. I don't know how many times I have to say this to people but I actually have common sense. I am a girl, yes a girl, and though I might be bigger and stronger than twige girls I can still get raped and murder by a man, at least a man who's bigger than me. If you ask to meet with me the very first few times you speak with me I will ignore you. It doesn't mean I'm completely off on the idea with meeting. This is my only way to meet most BDSM people cause I can't afford to go to a Fetish House anytime soon lol.
I am a nice person but there are some things that will turn me off like any girl. Above is one and the only other two I can think of is age and attraction. If you are old enough to be my father then I'm sorry but I can't get interested. It's a fact, I like older mature men but there limits to what I can get interested to. And attraction is just a basic instinct. If you are cute then great. If you're really hot than wonderful. If you could improve yourself maybe you should. At the moment I am not at my best but I am trying. I'm eating better, I go to the gym as many times I can to get a sweat worked up. But if you want to be interested in me you do have to be interested in yourself to. It might sound petty and selfish of me but attraction is not fashion but just nature. Well there is my rant, hoped you liked it ^_~
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I've spoken to a few people already about BDSM and I believe I might be a switch. I do believe submissives do have some control, control to stop but they do not have a choice in the matter as to what happens in a scene unless they are given premission. I may have upset some when speaking to them the way I am. I want to make one thing clear to everyone. I want to learn as much as I can and maybe when I am comfortable enough I will experiment outside the internet with someone. But I want to be safe. I am a girl, an innocent one in a dark world, which means I am vulerable to men. I don't want to be raped or murder, so if you speak with me and I don't give you what you want please don't offending I'm just protecting my own at the moment. BDSM between a submissive and dominate requires a trusting relationship between the two. A relaxed one which is why a lot of relationships in BDSM can be very deep. I want something like that but I am no fool. I won't rush into anything until I'm sure of myself and the person I trust.
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My preferences are pretty simple when looking for someone I want to like. First off I may like older men or such but I can't handle anyone older than 45 because it's just too old for a 19 to handle. I would like to find someone close to my age but I've heard not many people start with this world young. I guess you could say I'm interest in tall, dark, and handsome but I don't have to stick with it. I really go for tall lean guys that have a humor and a sense to have fun in life. I guess sometimes I fantasies with romance novel guys but I know that's rare to find in reality; doesn't mean I won't keep searching for him.
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I mainly like anything that involves binding a person from movement or speech. Rope, leather, cloth, as long as it doesn't cut into the skin it's a nice touch. The idea of restricted movement and power is something I'm fond of experimenting for. Toys are interesting of course, especially a swing. It would make a fun night to be off the ground wouldn't you say.
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I first learned of BDSM a few years ago when I was in middle school. I didn't fully did my search of this world till high school/college. Now that I am of age I want to embrace this world more and more to see if there is somewhere I can fit. I guess you could say I'm a lost soul of sorts but it doesn't mean I'm dull or stupid.
I am most curious about binding and control. I want another person to take the choices out of my hands. Sometimes I have a mother hen personality, liking to take care of others but only when that person deserves it.
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