Outside of scenes, submissiveness is NOT (unless you want me this way): being dumbstruck, totally passive, without suggestions (when you're in the mood).

Submissiveness IS surprising you with, say, flowers, entertaining you, gently seducing you, brightening your day when you're feeling a bit down, anticipating your desires, making myself useful, and always, always being attentive and looking my best and making your life happier and easier.

I want to surrender all decisions in the relationship to a woman of integrity who doesn't think it's all about her.

I'm in Southwestern Connecticut, very close to NYC and looking to play and form a relationship with a domme r/t. Could be friendship rather than romance.

Outside of BDSM, I like going to museums, hiking, daytrips, nude beaches, dancing, reading.

My discomfort is not a limit on what activities you want. I want to explore.