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| It's time for yet another revamp, but that's not going to take place this very moment. In the meantime, here are a few points that are desired:
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Be local (far from a requirement, but bonus points if you are [I can and will traverse the entire country for you]).
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Be�honest (first hard requirement, and ironically enough, a lot of�people don't even know the meaning of the word).
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Be attractive (I'm far from the best looking guy out there, but I know I'm not nearly bad enough to be mistaken for bovine fecal matter. I would like if you weren't either).
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Be intelligent (the�second hard requirement).
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Dick Tracy is the single hardest game for the classic Nintendo, in my humble opinion.
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Be open-minded (the third hard requirement).
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Be respectful (the fourth hard requirement).
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Be reasonable (that's open for interpretation, so try to use your best judgment).
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Everything else is up for negotiation.
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I'm very practical, very smart, very honest, and very affectionate.� I have yet to�find someone who can match me on a couple-oriented level when it comes�to affection, and I've resigned myself to the fact that I probably never will within the lifestyle.�You've been warned.
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Now, to go into more detail than what's listed above. I'm looking to have a poly household, with no more than three (3) subs/slaves. I'm not a natural sadist, but I am accommodating, so any s-type that is into mild pain will still have that need fulfilled at my discretion. Also, I'm much more into the mental and service aspects of BDSM, so those who want little or nothing more than bondage and spankings can freely look elsewhere.
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I'm not picky when it comes to race, but like stated above, open-mindedness is a hard requirement. That means being open to the possibility of a mixed household. Despite my age, I know exactly who I am, and I know exactly what I want. This isn't some game to me, and I'm not trying to discover myself along the way. I've already reached that point in my life. If you choose not to believe me simply based on my age, then that's on you. Next, even if you're not my type in particular, but you want to take in what knowledge and views I have, I'm more than willing to share what I know. The only thing I require in return is respect.� Finally, I have zero desire to have more children of my own or marry any of my subs. If you have children prior, that's perfectly fine and I'll readily accept those children into my family, but I will not be impregnating anyone.
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Another point of interest that should be elaborated on is my being practical.� I believe both in and out of BDSM that having skills that contribute to survival on the most basic of levels is key to me.� Knowing how to hunt, knowing how to create shelter, grow and maintain food, things of that nature.� I fully intend to teach any s-type I own how to survive, even though they'll depend on me.� In the unlikely event that I should become incapacitated (knock on wood), my girls will know how to survive without my physical intervention.� That is one of my goals, to teach.? Another is to learn. My being Dominant doesn't mean I have nothing left to learn.? Quite the contrary, I seek to learn every day of my life, even outside of an established institution.? I teach who I own while they teach me.? How else would we as a family grow together if we don't learn with and from one another?
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Oh, and I've successfully met the male Dom quota for CollarMe by having at least one dick reference in my profile.
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Enjoy.
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It never ceases to amaze me how many profiles I come across (both Dom and sub alike) that either claim that they're a true something, or that they won't talk to anyone who isn't.
Here's the thing........
No one here (or anywhere else, for that matter) has any right to determine what "True" really is. It implies that their mindset is the absolute, and everything else is wrong or fake. Total bullshit.
People are entitled to do things their way (again, this applies to every spectrum), and if any one person doesn't like how another person does things, move on. Everyone is expected to have their own ideal situation, and want something specific. Claiming "True" status, or even expecting that from someone else, makes you sound real ignorant.
This is simply a slightly modified version of a journal entry I posted a little over two years ago. It needs to be at the forefront. |
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Sationed at a bank.
On Roosevelt.
In Chicago.
During the NATO summit.
Pillow fight. <~~~~~Really?
100% of what I said applies to me at work.
4 more days of this. |
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Profile updated finally.
Also, I detest what a lot of Doms do to females that just join the site (sending mass form letters and demanding to have other forms of communication), but due to my own personal experiences with new subs and the overwhelming amount of mail they receive, I can see the appeal behind wanting to quickly move off of this site when it comes to cmmunication. Remaining here, any reasonable Dom runs the very high risk of their mail being lost amidst the pages and pages of bullshit that the average sub gets. I can only imaging how many times this very situation has happened to me. |
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Yep, got a mean set of claws and I can spit fire. Guess that makes me a modern day dragon, now wouldn't it? (All of this is in reference to my newest picture, and although I love playing with knives and guns, I'm not much into knife or gun play) |
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"Conquer the angry man by love.?
Conquer the ill-natured man by goodness.?
Conquer the miser with generosity.?
Conquer the liar with truth. "
Look around your world, at your present pet. Is she sitting there watching tv, or playing on Face book, ?or constantly saying take me shopping, me, me, me, me, me... High maintenance? Did you come home and have to cook and are you the one who is cleaning the house? maybe you should rethink about her..?
Missingtouch is responsible for that, and quite a few n00bs and vets alike can learn from people like her. |
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Shame when someone blocks you before you get a chance to COMPLIMENT them. |
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FoxyLady1104 is responsible for this, and her profile quite accurately details what a lot of people, both submissive and Dominant should learn.
It is important that a submissive's best interest is to obey her Master because in a D/s relationship, Master knows best, Obedience shows respect, love, devotion and loyalty. And Idealistically, That?s what a submissive wants, she wants to please her Master. In a D/s relationship the Dom and the submissive have certain roles and for a healthy, long lasting relationship, it is important to follow these roles, result not to follow these roles can be drastically " bruise". A submissive trusts her Master with her life, Because she gives Him her life, she trusts Him to guide her in the right direction thus, she must be obedient. Obedience is what a submissive's role is, Its where she belongs, firmly planted at her Master's feet physically, But spiritually, emotionally and mentally they are O/one. her Master is her guidance, even if she is as wise as her Master, If the submissive is as wise as she thinks she is, she will know her place, To try to be in a higher place than she already is planted would be a foolish thing to do, And she should take punishment as her Master see's fit. And as Master, He should take immediate action to such behavior, If not loss of trust and respect of Him would take place. There are many reasons as to shy a submissive behaves the way she does, perhaps seeking attention, Knowledge or a Free Spank . Obedience is a necessity, Because without it, the submissive can not do many things The Master must gain her trust and He must gain her eagerness....her need to obey. With this T/they will go far, So it is important for a submissive to be obedient in a scene, If she were to disobey, the effects would not be very pleasant at all. Obedience should come natural to a devoted submissive, even a spirited , bratty one, Because she knows Master knows best and He is trying to better T/their relationship together as O/one. A submissive's Obedience shows and shines through her body and self image. her Obedience pleases her Master for He feels He is in control, As it should Be. Obedience is in fact why a submissive is a submissive, she could be dominant But she chooses to kneel and serve . A Master must mold His submissive into what He sees is fit, And it is the submissive's job to be molded , her Obedience is who she is, it shows and shines her love and devotion to her Master, A submissive should honor her Master, Love and please Him. Obedience is who she is , it is the reason why she is called a submissive, because she submits to her Master and she serves her Master, And she does this obediently, with no hesitation, Because she wants to please her Master, she finds joy in what she is, who she will become. Tasks are not tasks to a true submissive, they are privileges, she wants her Master to be proud to call her His submissive. A Master works hard to mold His submissive ,So in return the submissive must obey, A submissive can be open minded, and share how she feels, But when an order is given. She must act swiftly, she has no say, she may have a loud opinion, but it is not her place to question His authority ,she just . Her submission becomes natural, it is her instinct, her whole entire way and look of life. An obedient submissive eats, sleeps, and breathes to serve, to kneel at the foot of her Master. Obedience should be as flowing to her as walking, she may stumble a few times, but her steps should be made gently and carefully, thought through, and such procedures should be made when a submissive is obedient. A wise Master listens to the submissive, And takes into consideration of her feelings, and knowing this, a submissive should be obedient, knowing when Master gives her an order it is for her own good and it will benefit her to better her self in His eyes. Often times in a D/s relationship, The Master gets a little forgetful that the submissive also is human, and being that she is human, she can and very well will make mistakes, and get a little ornery her self, But in the end she kneels at His feet willingly, and He looks upon her and He lets her know He owns her, Obedience is something a submissive must learn, or the Journey she walks along with her Master as her side will be long and suffering. A spirited submissive may be mouthy sometimes But she knows her place and knows batter than to disobey or be disrespectful. Obedience is a close second to Respect they are one in the same as far as most are concerned. And it is childish and ot a good quality of a submissive to break either one. |
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Here's a recent and brief conversation that transpired between myself and a genius that goes by Firefly1221.
Her: If you were a true master you not have let your fat cunt play domme for you to play dom
Me: Read my most recent journal entry to figure out why you sound as stupid as you do. Don't disrespect me.
Her: I do want bitch boy and Your fat cunt has to play dome To let you fake ass play dom
Needless to say, I stopped wasting my time after that message. I try to show respect to everyone that messages me, but if you're going to try and come at me in any hostile way, the very least you could do is use proper grammar and MAKE SENSE. I understand that everyone is entitled to their personal views, but if the best you can do to put me down is babble in complete incoherence, then save it for someone as dumb as yourself. Seriously, I'm on a phone and my elocution is still deemed acceptable. Got to love this wnderfully diverse world we live in. |
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Those who are looking for a 'True Master' or a 'true slave' are full of shit. How is it possble that people with so many years of experience think that any other person in this lifestle can be a 'true' anything? That's like saying there's only one way to be a good slave or Master. I know, I'll search on CollarMe for a 'true white woman' or a 'true black woman!' What the hell, really? There are as many different Doms/subs as there are people on this damn planet, and I refuse to deal with anyone close-minded enough to think that there's one true anything here. I'm done. For now. |
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Well, since my birthday was yesterday, I guess it is time to update my profile. Nothing more than changing the age on it. |
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It comes as no surpise (but to my great disappointment), that one of the few decent profiles I encountered here (and it was well-written), ended up belonging to a fake (the entire account disappeared when she was called on her bullshit). Oh well, but that won't stop me in my search for someone legitimate to share experiences and beliefs with.
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A Slave Is Not A Slave Because She ?Wants To Be Beaten...Hurt...Brought To Tears, That Is A Masochist. A Slave Is Not A Slave Because She Wants To Be Controlled...Sit..Stand...Serve. That Is A Submissive. A SLAVE IS A SLAVE BECAUSE SHE ONLY DESIRES TO BE OR BECOME WHATEVER HER OWNER NEEDS HER TO BE WHEN HE NEEDS HER TO BE IT. THIS IS HER ONLY TASK...HER ONLY DUTY. FROM THIS ONE THING...MAKES ALL ELSE POSSIBLE
Words from yet another wise slave, MuseOfO.
There needs to be more out there who are actually serious about what they are. |
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"Ladies....you are better than an abuser...do NOT settle for anything less than what you deserve and you deserve a Master that will laugh with you and not at you. That will treat you as a human being even after you have taken His 'collar'. Not all dominates...men...are assholes. You just have to weed through the ones that are. Do not allow the bad eggs to destroy you or your desire to be owned. I believe that abusers are not just wanna be dominates that hurt a submissive physically but also emotionally in more ways than just treatment...those that get you on your knees and get what they want then dissapear just to reapear a week later expecting you to call them "Sir". Follow your heart ....there is more to this lifestyle than sex..so much more...sex is just a bonus." - Tasiana
There are still smart.......and real........subs among those on CollarMe. There is still hope.
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