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| Formerly (still, occasionally, I suppose) VaguelyCurious on here. Sthetic on FL (and ic, but who the fuck still uses ic?) but that profile's geared to the toppier side of me.
'Switch' is probably accurate, but it's not what I'm looking for on here. 'Submissive' isn't the right word either; not really. I'd probably go with 'bottom,' if a) it were an option and b) it weren't such a dreadful word. If you want somebody to respect and/or submit to your authority I'm not the one; as a bottom I'm about mutuality rather than power exchange - I want to do this shit because it's fun, not because it makes you feel powerful.
Be comfortable with yourself. I don't want somebody who wants to control me and I don't want somebody who wants to impress me - I'm a reasonably baggage-free individual and I expect the same.
I'm both insanely picky and not entirely sure what I'm looking for. Fun rather than UBERSERIOUSNESS. Intelligence and creativity.
Practical stuff: I work weird hours sometimes, I don't live in London proper, and I can't accomodate. Them's the facts.
I'm not really expecting to find on here; I'm putting out a feeler or two just in case, but let's face it - I'll probably end up picking tops out of the scene kinksters I already know. This is a 'want' profile rather than a 'need' profile.
(With that in mind: I've been here a while. I am therefore pretty comfortable with the 'delete' key. Don't take it personally, mmkay?)
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