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	Greetings, I am fairly new to BDSM. As I evolve, so to shall my profile. You may find my profile lacking for now. Either check back or ask. I would prefer if you asked because maybe I dont know the answer until you ask the question. I have always had what I thought of as darker desires that I never shared with my previous lovers. I now understand why I always found my relationship lacking. I was neither true to them or myself. This is just as much as about finding myself as it is finding a compatible partner(s). Some ground rules 1. Until negotiations have been settled and I have stated so I am NOT your subslavekajira. Do not think that because I am considering you or that you are considering me that you have the right to control me in any way, shape or . Most DomMasters understand this well and have been very mature in their communications. However, there has been a few who has almost ruined it for the rest of you. 2. You will need and are expected to earn my respect and adoration if I am expected to submit to you. I am trusting you with something very precious, my body, mind soul. I need to have the highest degree of trust for you to relinquish control to you. This is a process. 3. I am an independent, intelligent and hard working woman. I have high standards of honor and integrity. I will not be broken but must surrender naturally or not at all. Most DomMasters have agreed and supported my feelings on this subject. If you dont agree then we simply will not be a good fit and there is nothing wrong with that. It just means we seek something different and it is best we found out now instead of wasting our time and generate ill will. Brightest Blessings, Adara

5/1/2013 1:11:50 AM

This has been such an incredible journey. I knew things are meant to happen over night. But I have desires and needs. I can go back to vanilla again. I wonder if I have sentenced myself? Do not approaching me demanding nude pictures, etc. Take the time to get to know. I look forward to giving myself freely. I will not be broken by those who claim to be true Doms. I have the mindset already. I simply desire to meet my match not someone who simply yanks at reins!

4/5/2013 11:39:35 PM

Sorry to even write this.... I'm a bit crazy. I know this. I will want you. I will push you away.I am starting to think I should go back to one nighters with married men. Sad but so true....

1/23/2013 12:50:08 PM

I just had a man write me this:

"Aww...already it turns out you are a liar and a fake! That didn't take long.

If the simple courtesy of signing an email to me with your real first name was too much, why would I be interested any further?

I am far too nice a guy to bother with someone playing games online..."

Let me make something clear... Adara is not my real name nor will I give out my real first name after a few chats. My first name is somewhat unique. With only my first name and city, you can find my home. It has happened. I won't risk it.

I am a single mother with 3 children. If you do not understand my need to protect my vanilla life and family, then don't waste my time.

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