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I choose to deny a specific role in this lifestyle. Not because I am undecided but because I am changeable depending on the person, partner, time and situation. In other words, occasionally my usually cool and detached demeanor will transform itself into a raging inferno of carnal desire and sexual lust and I will venture to find partners that I can explore fantasies, fetishes and foibles with on mutually agreeable level. I am essentially none, and all, of the above. It really depends upon what you inspire in me and what I may inspire in you. I like whips and floggers, bondage and crops and clamps and strapons and all that fun stuff. I am open-minded and adventurous, curious and unfulfilled, and looking to meet others who are able to accept this, desire this, even demand this, in a man. I am really not looking for a relationship, per se, but I am not trying to avoid one either. Who am I? I am not your average guy below this decidedly average shell. While some have said that I am handsome, and a part of me wishes to believe that, I do not allow myself to accept it. I am, however, quick-witted, smart, worldly, hilariously funny and darkly brooding, intense and yet temperate in many things, and most definitely passionate. I am a deeply flawed idealist and obsessive perfectionist in all things that I care about--without ever attaining perfection, of course. Contrarily, I am also no different to anyone else in the apathy I display for the things I care less for. So, enough about me. Ask if you have any questions. I am open and honest about myself. I hope you are too.