Hi, all. My first time visiting. Recently separated from my husband who's told me a lot about this place. He's tried to explain what it means to be collared but I'm afraid it goes right over my head. (I'm a blonde, what can i say?!)
I am relatively new to this type of lifestyle, which I'm sure is obvious. I've been learning more and more about being a submissive. I tend to be submissive anyway, in that I generally try to "do for" people.
Now that has lately carried over into my sex life. I've found I like giving what the man wants. To an extent. I'm not a big fan of getting the shit kicked out of me, you know? But I do take a good beating when he feels I deserve it or when he needs to let off steam.
I feel that my body is HIS body, it's his to do with as he needs/wants. Of course a huge part of that is the fact that I trust him implicitly.
I realize I keep talking in the present tense but our separation is new.....just this past Monday in fact.
Well, I guess that's all for now.

storm.

P.S. Before it would allow me to put in my profile I had to specify my ethnicity. I never, and I do mean NEVER specify my ethnicity. Not even on census. I don't see what difference it makes. So I answered "other"....don't know what "other" is, but I do not I'm not one. Maybe "other" is Martian or something! :) At any rate, if my color is of any importance to anyone, don't even bother me. I can't think of a less important aspect of my life.