It was during my late teenage years, when I realized I dont like vanilla (Neither the flavour not the fervour ! ); Internet accessibility bubble was yet to burst in India. I evolved along with the Internet. And with me evolved my fantasies, my desires, my fetishes, and my kinks. This Fetlife profile has been a reflection of my journey, my metamorphism so far - when Orkut was still a fad among us Harappans, I called myself a "switch", then used the label "fetishist" for a while, changed to "Hedonist" after that and finally settled with "Dominant", the label I am using these days. I hate these labels so much, they are inherently limiting and restricting by nature. But that's a discussion for another day.

So after being unsure for the better part of my past, I now identify as an out and out Dominant cis male. I have been exploring my Dominant side for quite some time now and I am thoroughly enjoying it. My partners claim the same for themselves ....... or so I have been told ! For me the dynamics of Dominance and Submission and the power exchange starts and ends in the bedroom (unless its a Public play that we are talking about). Been practicing my knots for sometime now, I think I am getting better with ropes.

Also, around a couple of years ago, I was introduced to the swinging lifestyle. To be honest it quite difficult to be a single male in this lifestyle, but being a bisexual (Labels..sigh!) male helps, I have been fortunate enough to be friends with some really awesome people (couples). This is another aspect of my sexual life that I am enjoying to lot these days.

Most of my play/sexual partners are very close friends of mine and no matter how far or close geographically they are, they will always be a key component of my life.

Feel free to reach me, in case you believe there is a potential to explore together either as a friend or even more importantly as a play partner...winks ;)

If we have not met before, a message along with the friend Request would be much appreciated.

Thanks,
V