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| I am an experienced, straight, Safe, Sane and Consensual Master who understands the appropriate role for a sub/slave and how to treat her, care for her, use her and train her. Anyone who doesn't understand that this is a partnership shouldn't be in it! Ok, we got that out of the way...what does it all mean? D/s & M/s is a mutuality, my partner is entitled to care, respect, protection and affection. I can use her fully, but I cannot abuse her. The difference? Simple, one is SSC, the other is not. I hear the masochists out there yelling, "wait, I like being hurt!!!" -- so? Pain in play with consent is fine. But D/s & M/s is not about pain. It's about relationships. It's about caring for your pet and your pet caring for her Master. I should always be proud of my pet; whether or not I'm disciplining her. In a public setting, I should be able to look upon my partner and beam. In a private setting, I should be pleased to see and glad to kiss my partner. People sometimes ask me, "do you love your slave?". Dumb question in my mind. Love is the byproduct of a relationship. I can no more predict loving my slave than I can loving a vanilla partner -- but -- D/s & M/s are intimate relationships...RELATIONSHIPS...and if a relationship is honest and grows, affection develops -- sometimes affection turns to love. I get asked, "how can you claim to respect a sub/slave if you rank so many of the S&M activities highly?" Another bad question. I rank activities by how I enjoy or don't enjoy them. I get INVOLVED in activities in which my partner and I agree are within the confines of the relationship. I never force a partner to do something she is truly unwilling to do. I may cajole, encourage and motivate...but I NEVER force. I am in a class of Doms that historically was called "Protector" Doms -- but in more modern parlance is usually referred to as "Daddy" Doms. As a Protector, I take very seriously the notion that I am responsible for the well-being of my girl; physically and emotionally. I also enable the emotional connection -- often perceived as a parental feeling on the part of my girl -- as she feels herself enveloped in the protective embrace that I provide. This is not something forced but a natural part of my being. As my previous partners can attest -- my aftercare is 2nd to none -- and aftercare is the hallmark of a Protector.
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What is it with the incredible outburst of ink among people? While I won't dispute the artistic talents of the tattooists, I find the barrage of ink-filled skin to be repulsive.
Tattoos can and are appropriate. They should be subtle and understated.
I was at the gym working out last night and a woman got on the treadmill in front of me. She had an excellent physique but as she took off her warm-up gear, it became quickly apparent that she was covered front and back, with various designs. To me, they did not add to her beauty, they detracted from it.
The naked human form should not be a canvas for a technicolor landscape.
I fully recognize that others will disagree. They certainly have that right. This is only my opinion. |
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Osama bin Laden has been killed by US troops. Congratulations to our brave service members!
May they all return home safe. |
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I constantly see profiles from girls who refer to themselves as 'slaves' and then put some rather specific limitations on what they will or what they will not do within the confines of a Master/slave relationship. For example I've seen 'slaves' who say:
- must be monogamous (often the girl says she's bi-sexual to boot)
- no anal
- no oral
- no ass play
- no older than X
- no younger than Y
- no more than 15 miles
and those are the more straightforward ones..
If one is a slave, the only limitations should be around the slave's physical safety and health. Anything else means she is a submissive.
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This was a shame...on a scale of 1 to 10, at least a 9.6 |
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The road is long, with many a winding turn...
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*Possesses an incredible look of innocence*
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There is one here who thinks she is fragile.
She isn't.
There is one here who thinks she is less than worthy sometimes.
She isn't.
There is one here who wonders at her value.
She is a precious gem.
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There are those that love to play mind games here. I tend to catch on rather quickly and have zero tolerance for that sort of nonsense. Those who think they can accomplish anything by yo-yoing are very mistaken.
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It turns out there are still some positive constants in the universe. Thank you r for enabling me to remember that.
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What part of STRAIGHT don't these sub boys who keep trying to contact me get?
I won't respond and repeated attempts will only result in you being blocked. If you have something intelligent to ask, post it to the forums.
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I hate wasting my time...
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And the sign flashed:
"Now serving #8"
And the ticket read:
A1746
As Bette Davis used to say, fasten your seatbelts, it's going to be a bumpy ride.
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Sometime hope is hidden...
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Don't you love the wannabes who make up these great fantasies about what they want but when it's time to get real they have a million excuses for not moving forward?
No time for stupid games -- go play elsewhere.
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Retired from the policing profession.
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I recently accused intenze of being a fake. She is NOT a fake and in fact a very real individual. The error was mine and based on incorrect information. I forthrightly apologize to her for labeling her inappropriately.
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I will not even bother to speculate why some people act as they do. Nevertheless, the banality around here seems to have reached a new low.
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She's a 100% phony and she has a spanking new profile here to prove it -- want to know more? Ask me.
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There is a class of individual here that loves to screw with people's heads. They will say anything, claim anything and promise anything to try to connive you.
Fortunately, I have excellent BS radar.
The radar has been working overtime recently -- unfortunately. Three more uncovered.
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r shared some good news today. I am very proud of her! Congratulations honey!
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My lastest pet peeve. Subs and slaves who say "willing to relocate" on their profiles but who have no other information about themselves. Yeah, right. I'm really going to talk to a person about moving near me when I haven't a clue about that person.
Get real.
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Some things remain unique and special. she is one of them.
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Two more phonies found...one didn't surprise me all that much -- but one, well, given the tenor of our original conversation, I'm disappointed.
I have to remain true to my ideals and convictions.
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Real friendship in the D/s realm is a rare event. It is particularly rare among ex-partners. So I consider myself fortunate that I have two ex-partners that I legitimately consider to be friends. These are women who opinions about both the lifestyle and me I respect and whose advice I will periodically seek. They are also women over whom I will keep an protective eye and they know it. One of them is a member here, and she knows who she is.
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