4/10/2015 12:01:10 AM: So, this evening, I had some gay male sub (please note I'm straight, and not looking for gay male subs -- why do I persistently get messages from them?! Anyway...) contact me asking if I saw him on the street the size of a 2 inch bug if I'd go out of my way to step on him. WTF?! Really?? Do I strike you as someone who'd care??So I said I wouldn't give it any thought and I wouldn't waste my time. I suggested that if he wanted to talk to me that he should make sure that it was something that I didn't feel was a waste of my time.His reply? To ask me how I'd feel if I just heard a crunch under my shoe that turned out to be him. This time I said, I still wouldn't have the slightest interest or care, and that I've lost interest in the conversation.So he tries to insult me. Says he's going to go talk to a real man...Yeah. Go ahead dumb ass.

5/17/2014 9:06:30 PM: My personal beliefs are my own and need no validation. Name calling, mockery, and judgmental accusations only serve to show the shaky foundations those who sling such things have when confronted with ideas that do not align with their own.   Yes, this is in response to something recent. Such a user admired my profile, then, in course of discourse, became upset about why I choose not to reveal my birth name. Never mind that she had no reason to know it. It was a 'red flag' for her, as if anything would come of our conversation being thousands of miles apart.   I will tell you, if you want to know my birth name, you will likely never know it. Even some of my close long time friends do not know what name was given to me at birth. In fact, if I could, I'd leave my profiles completely nameless because I believe a name is meaningless.   It is a person's actions that speaks to who they are.   Not only did this person try various acts of degradation of my personal beliefs because she, admittedly, did not understand, no was she willing to have intellectual discourse about it, but when I made it known I wanted nothing more to do with the conversation, she felt the need to drop not so subtle hints about it in her journal as if I was the crazy one.    I really don't care what she thinks, or probably you for that matter. My personal beliefs are mine, and yours are yours. I will never berate a person for believing differently than I, just for being shallow, unintelligent, and narrow minded.   If you think you'll have a problem with me because of anything I said in my profile, feel free not to contact me. If you get upset and blow your top over people who have differing views than you, then please, do not contact me.   In fact, if I come back to use this profile regularly I think I'm going to make a very clear list on who should/shouldn't contact me.

3/4/2013 8:52:30 PM: I have recently had a number of comments about the arm candy in some of my photos. Let me be clear: I am currently single and unattached.   I used to do some club promotion work, and have worked as a photographer. Because I have usually been the person behind the camera until a recent change in my life, there are not very many photos of me.   It should be said that to assume someone is with someone simply because they are seen together can quite easily be mistaken for what it is not.   In fact I have been unattached for some two years this April, though not seriously looking either. However, should someone really exceptional present themselves... then perhaps that might change. I do not need anyone to complete me, and have no interest in someone who is looking for that, either.

10/11/2012 9:18:15 PM: Hello. How are you? Me? I've never been better. Lots to tell, lots to learn, but pleasantries out of the way because this place seems not the best of environments for legitimate conversation. Besides, we wouldn't want to give away all our secrets leaving nothing left to discover, would we? I'm here, as I am many other places, looking for something. Something hard to define. Something that might only be able to be seen by the eyes of the blind. I am looking for a woman; but let me define what I mean when I say 'Woman' because to few here seem to grasp the concept: Woman - self confident, charismatic, comfortable with her sexuality and her choices. Capable of making a decision, and knowing that being a submissive or slave does not define her character - instead adds to it. A beautiful creature who knows there is strength in being capable of making decisions, asserting desires, and showing aggressiveness in the right context; who understands that self worth mean more that blind, weak minded, question-less submission. Any bitch can spread her legs or let a man (or woman) beat the piss out of her. That doesn't make you a submissive or a slave - it makes you stupid. I could go on about what a woman really is, but, I digress, we would be here all night and I don't enjoy sounding like combative condescending ass - but this had to be said.   Me: I'm an attractive guy, and have a lot going for me. Business keeps me busy so it's hard to meet people, let alone someone who shares the passion and desire I seek. It's been years since someone truly stirred the fire inside, and I'm getting tired of chewing through people as deep as cardboard or as capable as a pile of bricks. I get 'molding' someone, but for fuck's sake - have your own brain and desires! If I wanted a relationship with my thoughts, I'd be a complete hermit! So if you're a strong, independent woman, then you'll get what I say here. Submissive, Slave, Dominant - you won't be offended, and, though I'm often busy, if you'd like to enjoy some conversation, then you know how to reach me. After all, let's be real, if we don't click with words, we probably wouldn't last very long anywhere else, and if you can't stimulate me in an intellectual way or in the vanilla world, then I doubt you'll be capable of being more than a masturbatory puppet. Now, if you want to know some of the potential thrills I'd like to find outside of finding a woman to play the angel to my devil, for the sake of unconventional conversation starters I'll spill a few that I don't expect to become reality, but would be fun: I'd like to spend a week dominating a beautiful lesbian woman for her Dominatrix in an exercise of humiliation. Treat her like an animal and an object spill my lust on. So if there's a Domme out there who likes the thought of her lesbian slave being humiliated and fucked by an attractive & intelligent man - even though everyone knows that she doesn't share an attraction to the opposite sex, then, by all means, we can talk. Though, I consider this more of an exercise in fantastical desire and practice.   I also wouldn't mind completely taking and doing as I wished to an attractive woman 15 years or more my senior. Some woman who wants to be dominated and used by a man who may even be younger than her own children. Again, a fantasy more for the thought exercise and rebellion against social orders, but still plausible. That's all for now. I haven't much reason to share more at this time, but if we connect, who knows?

4/16/2012 1:14:37 PM: This site hasn't changed much from the cesspool I recall it once being before.   To few who are decent people here... and that's not even asking for much.