One of the main factors, for me in feeling truly Owned is to be constantly reminded throughout the day of Master’s control. These reminders can be subtle or really obtrusive. The more often a slave is reminded of their submission, the deeper it becomes….and the more fulfilling. So here are some ideas you might want to try. And no matter what rules you decide to make on your own, please be consistent. If you’re unwilling to take the time to enforce the rules you make, then there may as well be no rules at all. There is nothing in the world that will make a slave feel less loved than to have a Master/Mistress who ignores their transgressions and does not exert their Dominance.
1. Have them wear slave bells. The constant soft jingling of the bells is soothing and a certain reminder of their submission.
2. When they have broken a rule, talk to them as you punish….and make them speak in detail about why what they did was wrong.
3. Make them take their shoes off every day as soon as they enters your house.
4. A beautiful, special collar will make any slave joyous. Take the time to select the right one and have them wear it as often as possible.
5. Have them call you each day at a specified time, no excuses.
6. Give them anklets and tell them they must wear one of them every day, no excuses.
7. Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have them kneel before you and ask to accompany you upon the furniture.
8. Choose their hairstyle and go with them to get it cut to your specifications.
9. Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have them display themselves whenever you come into the room…..legs spread, shirt unbuttoned. No matter what position you take, they are to be sure your view is unobstructed.
10. When around the kids or vanilla friends/family, make sure they has an alternative title for you besides Master…..such as “my Love” etc.
11. Use them sexually in a rough, selfish way when you feel like it, interrupting whatever they were doing.
12. Choose a food that they dislike and have them eat a small portion every day for a week.
13. Have them crawl to bed each night.
14. Bring them a stuffed animal each time you go out of town. ~grin~
15. Choose their clothing each day.
16. Have them get your daily wardrobe ready for you the night before; laid out, ironed etc.
17. After punishment, have them kiss your boots and thank you for loving them enough to correct them.
18. Have them bring a warm towel to wash and massage your feet each day after work.
19. Get them tattooed (your choice of art and location).
20. Get them pierced (or preferably if you are trained, do it yourself).
21. Get them branded.
22. Respect, but push their limits.
23. Ask them each night what they did that day that you would not have approved of. *grin* This gets them in the habit of being completely honest and also makes them conscious of the things they could do better each day.
24. Teach them exactly how you want them to kneel and demand perfection.
25. Reward them by allowing them to please you sexually.
26. Supervise them workout routine.
27. Each night they are to kneel next to the bed asking permission to sleep with their Master, and each night they do, they are to kneel by the bed in the morning and thank their Master for the privilege.
28. Have them polish your boots weekly, on their knees at your feet.
29. Negotiate until you are both comfortable with the terms and then sign a contract.
30. Give them a writing assignment: “The definition of Pain – 1000 words”
31. Have them keep a diary of their journey into submission.
32. Instruct them that they may never get themselves something to eat or drink in your presence without first asking you if you want something.
33. Some evenings, keep them on a leash and take them with you no matter what you do, even if you do not speak to them or include them in your activities.
34. When appropriate, they are to speak when spoken to.
35. Reward them by giving them delicious pleasure.
36. On occasion, share them.
37. When it suits you, instruct them not to make eye contact with you without your command.
38. Have them keep their body clean shaven at all times.
39. Conduct random inspections of their body to make sure they keep themselves to your specifications.
40. Make them wear a butt-plug under their clothes whenever they go out alone.
41. For transgressions: have them write your name on the bottom of their foot and tell them to remember they are walking on you with each step. (This is harder to do that you might think….)
42. Master the art of the meaningful piercing stare…..
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