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Male Submissive, 30,  Netherlands

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 Submissive Male


 Willing to Relocate

 5' 9"

 75 lbs





Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Switch Women

Dominant Trans

Sometimes it is okay to read the profile.. sometimes not always :P


If you are still reading, then unfortunately I don't have much choice but unleash my wrath upon you..


Body Sats:

CS: height?

Me: 5' 9"


CS: weight?

Me: 75 kg


CS: Do you go to gym?

Me: EVERYDAY!! I have 6 pack abs..

CS: *Rolling over the floor laughing*

Me: *crying in the corner*


OK.. let's get down to business.. I am an Indian currently living in The Netherlands.  I work as a computer engineer. I am curios and friendly by nature.

I am a good listener and like to know people.

I consider myself sapiosexual and it doesn't take much to melt me to my knees if encountered with intelligence. (it anyways doesn't take much to melt me to my knees :P)


I like to read almost everything except books.. I just can't handle books. Books scare the shit out of me.

I like to walk.. walk with some conversation is one of my favorites.

Apart from that, I like to play computer games, table tennis and badminton..

NOT finished yet.. I am a big fan of board games too..


CS: For Fuck sake, it is CollarSpace not Tinder or Facebook. Would you say something about your interest in BDSM or not?

Me: Ok ok..

*After taking a breath*

Me: I like BDSM.


CS: That's it?

Me: :P


CS (screaming): Somebody give me my cane..

Me: I love bondage. It could be physical bondage with ropes etc or it could be mental bondage with commitment and words. The aspect of helplessness behind bondage is something which excites me.

When you have all the ability in the world to do whatever you want but you still choose to surrender yourself and give control over you to someone else you trust, it is just beautiful. It is difficult to explain that feeling in words.


CS: hmmm.. Finally something.. Anyways what is your orientation?

Me: I consider myself a submissive and a little bit of brat.


CS: Anything you would like to say about D/S relationship?

Me: Please check my writing.


CS: Interesting.. You like to write?

Me: Yeah, sometimes. I have written couple of short femdom stories which you can check here.


CS: Sure, I will check them. Are these real life experiences or just stories?

Me: Well, these are stories written based on my imagination.


CS: Ahaan. Do you have any hard limits?

Me: Well, I am still exploring myself. But I do have identified few. I am not into scat, blood play or needle play.


CS: I could have asked you about your fetish but I am not gonna ask.

Me: B-b-but why?? I have fetish and you should ask me about it.


CS: Well, I am not gonna ask you. After all, you are a submissive. Why should I ask you?

Me: This isn't fair. :'(


CS: Who said it should be? I like it this way.

Me: I hate you. It was going so smoothly. You had to ruin it. Didn't you?

CS: :D :P

Journal Entries:
6/9/2017 6:29:53 AM

Aren't Black holes just sexy?

I remember I once watched an episode of series Cosmos in which Neil deGrasse Tyson (Astrophysicist) quoted "Even light bows down to Black holes".

I was watching a documentary about Black holes today and that quote came to my mind and I pictured Black holes as dominants.. not just dominants but ultimate dominants.. no one escapes from their wrath and nobody can escape from their trap.. I imagined light (photons) as a submissive which is trying to escape from Black hole and Black hole keeping light also on a light leash and not letting it leave from its grip and declaring "thou shalt not pass".. what else a submissive need? ;)

It's one way road to them.. you can go there but can never return.. they just won't let you go.. even Physics go crazy there when it meets the Black holes.. quantum physics, general theory of relativity all go insane beyond event horizon.. that's the effect of black holes' love.. even time slows down as one approaches black holes.. doesn't it happen with love birds?

Whole universe love them.. they are the ultimate creation of universe.. even universe celebrates their births with a bang called Supernova.. take any object in the universe.. all are circling and roaming around black holes.. even our galaxy "Milky Way" has black hole in the center and everything including our solar system is revolving around it..

You can hardly imagine what happens when two of these magnificent creatures meet each other.. when they make love with each other, whole space time fabric gets ripped apart.. and one can feel the intensity of their love even trillions of kilometers away..

On top of everything, they are black.. my favorite color.. <3 They are full of mystery.. nobody knows what's beyond "event horizon".. how can one not fall in love with them?

4/10/2017 1:50:32 AM

What is a D/S relationship?

Many people here have a very wrong perception of it. They think that D/S relationship is all about kinky sex. Well it is a lot more than that.

First of all, D/S relationship is like any other relationship. It's a RELATIONSHIP. You can't just build a relationship within seconds. Like every other relationship, this also takes time.. a hell lot of time to build..

Second, just because you are a submissive and you find somebody who is a dominant it doesn't mean that you can get into a D/S relationship with that person and vice versa. It's like getting into a relationship with a girl you just met just because you are a boy and looking for a girl. It doesn't work like that. You need to know that person first.. and let that person know about you.. build trust because it needs a huge amount of trust on each other to get into D/S relationship.. check if you click with each other and then decide to get into relationship..

Just because you like to take lead in sexual activities or shout orders or slap it doesn't mean that you are a dominant. You may be a top which is good but a dominant.. that is much more than being a top..

      • Being a dominant means taking responsibility of the welfare of your sub and his/her health.
      • It's dominant's responsibility to take care of his/her submissive's "needs".
      • Being a dominant doesn't mean that you are superior to your submissive. Dominant and submissive both complement each other.
      • Being a dominant doesn't mean that you are free to do anything with your submissive. His/her health comes first. You are supposed to take care of his/her limits. 

When it comes to being submissive, it is not that easy either. Just because you like to act as a bottom or like to be humiliated it doesn't mean that you are a submissive. Being a submissive is quite different.

      • Being a submissive doesn't mean that the dominant would just fulfill all your fetish and you would get to enjoy. No, that's a very wrong perception. Being a submissive means being of service. It's your duty to take care of your dominant's "wishes". It's your duty to take care of your dominant's fetish. Whether your fetish would be taken care or not, that solely depends on your dominant. Your dominant in no way is bound to take care of your fetish.
      • Being a submissive means giving up your freedom, your will to do anything on your own and submit it to your dom(me) to assume control over you. Giving up your freedom doesn't mean just giving up freedom of your orgasm.. it is lot more than that.. it could be freedom to wear clothes of your choice.. it could be freedom to eat food of your choice.. it could be anything.. it is up-to your dominant to decide which freedom of yours he/she wants to take away.

Also in D/S relationship, love and respect for each other is very important otherwise it won't be there for long. It's the love and respect for each other which helps you keep yourself in your boundaries otherwise boundaries get to start breached unknowingly or unintentionally..

4/10/2017 1:48:31 AM


We were playing chess.. I was trying my best to win this one as was she..
Its not that I like to defeat her.. I love to let her win always because the smile on her face when she defeats me is far more precious to me..
But this time, situation was different..I badly wanted a sexual release which she hasn't given me from past 2 weeks..from past 2 weeks, everyday she brought me to the edge but didn't let me release.. if i win this game, i will finally get the release which i desperately want and she was trying everything to not to let it happen..
Suddenly she made a bad move and she was one move away from the defeat.. I couldn't stop my smile and she noticed her mistake.. I was about to play that move to finish the game so that i could have my release after 2 weeks of wait but suddenly she interrupted.

She said in a cute way, "So now, you will defeat your Mistress."
I replied, "dear, you know very well how badly i want the release."

She said, "I know, that's why just to get that, you will defeat me now. Huh!"
I replied, "baby, this is not fair. its just a game and its because of your fault only, i need it so badly."

She said emotionally, "If you didn't want to submit to me then why did you let me take control over you"
I replied, "its not like that honey. i love to submit to you but i need to have release now. please don't blackmail me emotionally now!!"

I was now puzzled and couldn't decide what to do now. She noticed this struggle on my face and smiled cunningly.

She said, "alright. go ahead and defeat me JUST to get your release."
I was completely helpless at that moment and placed my king at the target of her queen and replied, "at your mercy Mistress!!" and she grinned.

I am her submissive..
She owns me..only She..
I am completely hers..

4/10/2017 1:47:30 AM

How much she owns me!!

I was playing with my Goddess and my Goddess got naughty and tied me up on the bed with my hands tied to the bedpost above me and my legs tied to the lower bedpost.. I was lying completely naked and helpless.. my Goddess looked at me and smiled in a cunning way.. I smiled back.. she came on top of me and sat on my chest and said, "you know what you are supposed to do in few moments.. don't you? I smiled and replied pretending to be an ignorant although I knew, "I didn't get you honey"..

She giggled at this and said, "oh my cute boy, you know very well but trying to be so innocent.. let's do it hard way then".. saying this, she stuffed my mouth with hanky and tape gag it.. I was taken by surprise with this move as I was supposed to lick her and with my mouth gagged, how was I supposed to do it.. she smirked and said, "I am going to teach you a very important lesson today and it will remind you to what extent I own you.. after this lesson, you will be bit more obedient.. if not much.. a lil more obedient.." and she giggled.. hearing this, I got scared a lil and she read it in my eyes and she laughed at it and said, "what happened baby?.. you don't want to be bratty now? anyways, lesson should be taught" saying this she kissed my eyes and then she suddenly pinched my nose and held it tightly blocking air supply completely from me.. my eyes opened wide and got scared like anything.. with my mouth gagged and nose pinched tightly, there was no way I could breathe at all.. I started pleading through my eyes to her to release me but she giggled at my predicament.. in few moments there were tears in my eyes and I was trying to move my face frantically here and there to get rid of her grip on my nose but all in vain.. she held it very tightly.. I was running out of oxygen and pleading like anything through my eyes.. suddenly she left her grip from my nose and I gasped for air like anything.. I was breathing heavily and suddenly she pinched my nose again and I was frustrated like anything at it.. at my frustration, she laughed out loud and leaned over my face and said, "did you get it now how much I own you?" I immediately nodded.. she smirked and said, "even your breathing is under my control.. you breathe when I let you breathe.. you understand?" I nodded again.. she then said, "next time before being bratty, think about it once.. otherwise next time I will hold your nose for pretty long time.. long enough to make things loud and clear..".. saying this she released my nose and I gasped for air..

I was breathing heavily..after inhaling air for few times, she removed the tape from my mouth and removed the hanky as well.. then I said, "thank you Goddess.. thank you for letting me breathe.. my body, mind and soul.. all are yours.." she smiled at this and kissed my eyes again and came close to my face again placing her pussy over my mouth and asked me, "you know what to do.. don't you?" at this, I replied, "yes Goddess"..

I am her submissive..
She owns me..only She..
I am completely hers..

4/10/2017 1:45:47 AM
She is my everything!!

I had a argument with my Mistress and she got angry with me. I tried my best to clarify the things but she was adamant and she kept banging my mind left and right. Then, I surrendered myself and asked for her forgiveness but she was not ready to grant me forgiveness that easily. I was running around her for forgiveness but she was nowhere close to forgive me. Finally when she was amused enough with me begging for her forgiveness, she sat down on the chair and asked me, "give me one reason why shouldn't I abandon you?" Hearing this, I went completely in shock.
I couldn't actually believe that she asked me this question. I somehow collected myself and then I knelt in front of her with my hands behind my back and replied, "Mistress, you are the air I breathe. If you will abandon me, I will die from suffocation." Hearing this, she looked at me with a cunning smile on her face. I continued, "Mistress, you are the water I drink. If you will abandon me, I will die from thirst." She grinned hearing this. Then I said, "Mistress, you are the space in which I live. If you will abandon me, I would be in oblivion. You are my Goddess. Without you, I won't survive."
Hearing this, there was a spark in her eyes. She came close to me and kissed me and hugged me..

I am her submissive..
She owns me..only She..
I am completely hers..

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