Update on my wrist:

First of all, I wanted to thank everyone that has sent me well wishes for a speedy recovery.  You have no idea how much it's appreciated.  Kisses to all of you. 

So, for the update, things seem to be healing well.  The staples were removed last Tuesday and the incision looked good.  I'll have a nice scar when all is said and done and forever set off metal detectors, but, hey, what can you do.  I'm currently in a lovely purple cast until Friday and then will be in a splint for a while.  While I'm looking forward to the increased mobility with the splint, I'm still apprehensive about not having the protection of the cast on my arm since it will only be about 3 weeks since I broke it.  I know the plate is holding everything together, but I'm still nervous. 

Wow, was I just enlightened (NOT!!) by a male member of the site this weekend.  According to him all "Men DOMS" don't give a shit about reading what is in a girl's profile, that everyone here is just here for kink and sex and that I should save myself a lot of disappointment and lose my request that someone read my profile first.  So, if you're a curteous male dominant and you actually take the time to read a profile first before contacting a girl, well then shame on you.  Instead, you should waste your time contacting a girl that may not be looking at all and has that clearly stated in her profile.  After all, we all know how much dominant men that are searching, enjoy wasting their valuable time emailing girls that aren't even available (can you hear the sarcasm?).  I tried responding to said  man that tried to enlighten me, to let him know that if he had actually read my profile, he would have found that I'm not even looking for a male dominant and there would be no disappointment on my end, but, like the coward I already knew he was, he had blocked me immediately upon sending me the email.  Ahhhh, you have to love a man that is afraid of a girl responding back to him.

Why do i sometimes feel like i'm the only one who lives by the philosphy "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all"?  For the most part, everyone that i have had the pleasure of chatting with on this site has been more than cordial and friendly.  i've appreciated the many compliments that i have received and thanked the sender for each one of them.  However, i guess that in every bushel of apples, there are always some rotten ones, the ones that obviously have nothing better to do than to send out random nasty messages to others that they don't even know.  Is your life really that pointless and meaningless that you have nothing better to do than to belittle others?  i don't expect everyone on this site to like me, and i really don't care if they do or not.  i'm not looking for anyone else's approval.  i have that already from my hubby and my friends and family, and they are the only ones who's opinions mean anything to me.  But, there are those out there that are very hurt by nasty comments, those who already have damaged self esteems that are only made worse by small minded people whose own self esteems are obviously so low that they have to try and make others around them feel smaller so that they can feel big.  Instead of criticizing others, why don't you try looking in the mirror and figure out is wrong with yourself instead.  You'll be much happier in the end as will be everyone else around you.

Okay, i've never used the journal feature on here before, but i feel the need to now to get some things off my mind that i have been thinking about for quite some time.  For the most part, i think this is a really good site here.  It allows like minded people to come together in one place and share their interests, make friends, and find whatever it is they may be looking for.  Now, what irks me though, and i've read this on more than one Dominant's profile, is the Dominants that get annoyed with sub/slaves on here that are collared and owned.  A sub/slave that is collared and owned has just as much right to be here as one that isn't collared.  This site is not JUST for those that are seeking another.  Some of us are here to make friends with others, some are here to learn, some of us may have been ordered to by our Owners.  For whatever reason, it should make no difference to anyone else other than those sub/slaves and their Owners.  Okay, done venting for now i think, lol.  i'm sure i'll think of other things in the future.  That just happened to be one that was bugging me based on a profile i read today.