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    I will be mostly offline until the end of May. Friends can still email however it may take me a while to answer over the next month.  

   ~~~~~I love to be obeyed. I am a delicious Domme and live D/s as a lifestyle Domme.   I find it to be the only way I am truly happy. I have many friends on both sides of the line and seek those who genuinely love to serve me.   I am very special, relatively smart, and once you connect with me you'll see why I seek those who adore me and crave to serve me.~~~~~
     Yes, I know...I have a 'quiet' profile.
Many of you know me here on cm and out in the community.

  We become "friend's first", any kink is discussed after that.
  
"Poly doesn't mean I will help you cheat." Delilah Deb

             "What you are will show in what you do."        Thomas Edison

I am looking for a male or female sub to go out dancing with, ride bikes, hike, work out, etc. Email me if you are interested.

Whatever happens after that depends on our chemistry.

What I dream of is an art of balance
    Henri Matisse

Anam Cara

5/4/2009 10:10:41 AM
    from fitznicely:   "We do what we can. We keep off strangers and the foolhardy; and we train and we teach, we walk and we weed..."
4/22/2009 9:26:17 AM
Se son rose, fioriranno
4/17/2009 4:41:17 AM
What a sub just wrote to me:

'You .... have the heart of a lion and the soul of an angel.'
4/17/2009 4:39:34 AM

"I knew that I had come face to face with someone whose mere personality was so fascinating that, if I allowed it to do so, it would absorb my whole nature, my whole soul.."

Oscar Wilde

4/9/2009 6:42:08 AM
    "I want to capture your mind, your spirit, your soul, your body, your devotion and your love. Then, will I give you my heart.
...........Cowboy
4/8/2009 12:28:17 AM
    Maybe some women weren't meant to be tamed. Maybe they are supposed to run wild until they find someone just as wild to run with, or over.           Sex and the City
4/5/2009 10:20:48 AM
'All speech is vain and empty unless it be accompanied by action' Demosthenes

4/4/2009 2:54:39 PM
Demosthenes

- "Small opportunities are often the beginning of great enterprises."
3/25/2009 1:21:39 PM
These lyrics were revamped by my sub and sent to me as a present by my sub yesterday. What a nice email to open in the morning!   : )~  

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                                                                                       i needed someone,  
    and somehow You found me.
   i fell in love with Your green eyes.
With stars above me, the Domme who loves me,
   is keeping me in such sweet pain tonight.

   And nobody does it better,
   though sometimes i wish someone would.
   Nobody does it half as good as You.
   Why'd You have to be so good!

   The way that You touch me, whenever      You flog me,
   there's some kind of magic inside of You,
   that keeps me from runnin',
   so just keep it commin' .
   How'd You learn to do the things You do?

   And nobody does it better.
   Makes me feel sad for the rest.
   Nobody does it quite the way You do.

  Miss (My name), You're the best!
2/23/2009 3:30:55 PM
'Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.'
1/17/2009 1:49:27 AM

   “If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will save you.     If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you."            —Gospel of Thomas, 70
1/9/2009 3:07:53 AM
Suffering is overrated!
1/9/2009 3:06:42 AM
One of my kinky friends asked me this today:

   Are you a wild visionary-undaunted-resolute-soulful-unconventional-unorthodox-radical dreamer...?

   Maybe throw in brave -deft-poetic and radical...?
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  She was spot-on.    : )
12/8/2008 7:00:24 AM
    "Dominance is the ability to create a hunger in someone that's so strong they will do anything, anytime, anywhere just to please you."
11/28/2008 9:16:38 AM
   I had a wonderful Thanksgiving due to my house cuck-slave stepping up to the plate and helping me out at home. My outdoor room was lit by candles, and the garden got a "Wow" from my adult UM. My living room was newly decorated by me in the last week with red fabrics and candles were perched throughout the house and bathroom.
   Dinner was wonderful, and after three days of prep and a lot of work in my garden, it was simply grand to have family over.    I love to watch them moan over my food. *Chuckle*

   Hoping you all have a lovely Holiday season with less stress and plenty of good times.    I think we all need that, especially right now.

  Edited to add: I am poly, so please do not despair if you are interested in me.
  Also:   I am very proud of my sub for stepping up to the plate, putting his own needs aside and being there for me, for real, as many say they will step up to the plate and flake out.    I told him I am so proud of him and this made his eyes gleam with pleasure...at my pride in his actions.
11/24/2008 8:54:52 AM
  I have been super busy with Thanksgiving, etc.    I will be online more next week to answer emails and plan some fun...
11/15/2008 4:03:36 AM
                        'The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed. '                                           

      ~ Carl Jung
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                    And,

~~"I didn't mean to hurt your feelings, I was aiming for your balls." ~~
11/4/2008 7:10:40 AM
I put this on the general BDSM thread today:

   'The Magic Of love and BDSM'

loveisallyouneed wrote the above and posted it on another website.

   *sheet man*, cm won't let me copy and paste this from the forum. I will try again later or you can read the thread.

  ME

11/4/2008 7:02:29 AM
   Love is the magic that transforms pain into positive energy.

  
7/18/2008 6:38:25 PM
On the message board mettadas who is a sub wrote:
For me, the ego-reduced state I achieve during submission (when it goes really well) is very much the same as I have experienced through religious ritual or through meditation.  In both cases it can last for days afterwards.  I have long thought of submission as a spiritual path for me (though clearly not for everyone.)
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I think that's beautiful!
6/18/2008 9:10:30 AM
I have been thinking a lot about poly lately.
   This is my sig line on cm:
    "The more you love, the more you can love-and the more intensely you love.   Nor is there any limit on how many you can love.  If a person had time enough, he could love all that majority who is decent and just."     Time enough for love_ RAH
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I saw this quote on cm today from Wolfprincess:
   "The only one who can EVER replace you is you."   Translation:  If ever I WAS replaced it would be because of my OWN insecurities, my OWN bad behavior, my OWN decision to walk away.'
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Excellent food for thought!

6/12/2008 9:32:14 AM
"To be is to do."

                      Immanuel Kant