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I am a very old-fashioned woman. I believe chivalry is not dead. I want a gentleman, one wholl open the door for me as I get in the car. Messaging me stuff like, beg to be my slave will get you nowhere. I do reply to people with sense, those who are nice enough to talk about what they saw on my profile, or anyone who does message me nicely and isnt rude. Rudeness is one thing Id never tolerate.



I never reach out first.

Oh and please. If you think you look old enough to be my grandfather, please think twice before sending me a message. I dont particularly feel desperate enough to date an old man. I prefer someone a few years younger.
9/27/2017 11:06:11 PM
Looking forward to the time I frickin finish this German class. Everyday is so tiresome. Draining. Exhausting. Hell yeah, I'm learning a lot but after some time it takes a toll on my brain. I spend wayyy too much on my eating. So yeah, it is stress-eating.
9/4/2017 10:38:08 AM
Well, I have uploaded a photo of a message that a pathetic old man begging for some sort of attention sent me. Like, really? Could you be more pathetic than that? You don't meet my requirements, move on and live with it. You're like, what, 50? Not on my watch.
9/2/2017 11:17:00 PM
N?ste Woche, werde ich die B2 Klasse besuchen. Ich habe seit Januar die Deutschesprache studiert. M?cherweise, lege ich die B2 Prufung im November ab. Alles kommt sehr schnell.
8/19/2016 7:09:00 AM
Respect is earned, not given.
8/4/2016 3:25:29 AM
Kik is no longer working on my phone. It crashed. And I can't get it to work anymore. So if you have something important to say, or really need to talk to me, Whatsapp or just message me here. Thanks.
7/31/2016 10:41:56 AM
Let me misunderstand you.
7/30/2016 6:23:36 AM
It's not the first time someone asked how they could serve me. I find it very flattering.
And to think they put up their orientation as "dominant" on their profile.

Just random thoughts on a Saturday evening.
7/27/2016 2:11:35 PM
“The adventure of life is to learn. The purpose of life is to grow. The nature of life is to change. The challenge of life is to overcome. The essence of life is to care. The opportunity of life is to serve. The secret of life is to dare. The spice of life is to befriend. The beauty of life is to give."

I don't know why I posted this here. Maybe this is what "swarmed at work with patients" does to a person. 😂
7/11/2016 4:09:31 PM
I knew my feminine instinct was right. I want exclusivity. And Sir has connected with another submissive. So I've severed my ties with him. I'm glad to be free. Glad we didn't have much going on. I will never let myself be back up to another. Delusions of grandeur, where a person would tell you that he's supremely worth it, it's not their call to make. It's yours. It is gravely disrespectful to me. I'm happy to walk away with everything intact, including my feelings.
7/11/2016 6:49:43 AM
Something in my consciousness tells me to avoid this. To walk away. It is not weakness to walk away. It takes strength and grace to pull yourself out of an uncomfortable situation. Something that you are unsure of. Something that very well ignites doubts in your heart and mind. I'd rather walk away with my head up high, than stay with nothing left for myself. Just because something is not understood clearly does not mean that it should not be dealt with. And here's how I chose to deal with it. Step back, take a graceful bow, then leave.
7/9/2016 5:36:06 AM
Is this a dare? Or just a way to be able to see me soon? Should I? Should I not? I hate being questioned.. But I have to admit my excitement for this..
7/8/2016 9:05:39 AM
I need to catch up on sleep. If you have reached out to me, and saw that I read your messages but didn't reply, do understand that I'm just really tired and sleepy, and want nothing more than to rest my tired eyes.
7/5/2016 4:16:11 AM
It is so amusing to receive messages like "have you been owned before, chink slut?"

You know, that kind of stupid, arrogant attitude will get you nowhere with me.
7/4/2016 11:38:44 AM
I am so glad that even if I'm tired from all of this, I have the night to retreat and read. It puts me in a good, sleepy mood and once I'm very tired, I drift off to sleep without me even knowing it 😏
7/3/2016 9:00:10 PM
Open the door for a lady not because she's helpless, but because you are a gentleman.
6/29/2016 12:16:19 AM
It is true that with age comes wisdom. It seems that a lot of people with interesting profiles and quite frankly, those with the same viewpoints as I do are quite older than I am. That profile photo I have is the real me. Of course I have more, but I'm not putting all of them up here. I like my privacy. As for these interesting people,
I enjoy reading the profiles, it gives me an idea of what they are like. But, I'm having a bit of a problem reaching out,as I don't normally do that first, especially here.  I believe chivalry is not dead, and I am a firm believer of that.
6/25/2016 2:15:21 AM
I think I see some interesting people.. I don't know why but I.. I'm afraid to reach out.. I find that we have the same points of view, and it's quite exciting to think of this.. It holds a lot of promise.. But I'm still afraid..
6/24/2016 2:19:29 AM
On my days off, I mostly spend it on baking.. I chose this day for chocolate mousse cake. And dreaming about a ginger-bearded man😏 What is it about this that I love..😏
6/20/2016 7:00:55 PM
Hi everyone. While it is flattering to receive lots of messages in a day, may I just request all those with sadistic(and quite possibly- psychotic tendencies!) to NOT message me. I will just ignore you. I'd never reply to one who thinks of hurting a girl for his pleasure. They will either get blocked or perpetually ignored. I'm talking only to people with sense. Good day.
6/13/2016 7:30:35 PM
Okay. So I need some thoughts. I specifically stated that I am/was a sub. A submissive is different from a slave. I'm not choosing to be a slave, and as this is my profile, I have so chosen to block some users from sending me messages with views which I don't particularly share commonly. You say I have attitude? No. That is called free will.

I don't openly accept someone who just uses the excuse of a D/s relationship to be excused for abusing a partner. Being Dominant is assuming responsibility for your submissive. Pardon the lack of brakes when I talk. This is me.

there has to be trust for this to work. And if I don't trust you..

Anyway. Is this like ..a place where people just want exclusively look for a D/s relationship, or can someone at least freely make friends here? Pardon me,I'm new here. I hope before you even message me, you'd try to read up on this little journal. Message me your thoughts on what has been written here.
6/13/2016 4:39:02 AM
Hi. First order of business: Respect. If you send me a message so disgusting and unacceptable, I will terminate your ability to send me any kind of message at all.

Second. No, I am not in Canada. It's supposed to be anonymous. But I might be relocating in a year.

Third. Well, conduct yourself accordingly. Doms are intelligent. Your message will be the first thing to give the contents of your mind away.

and..

Lastly.. Please. I am young. So I don't really want someone old. Respect my decisions and what is acceptable to me.