I'm not new to the lifestyle, but my experience has been limited by Doms who did not know what they were doing. It's not about wanting control over another person; that's usually just insecurity. It's about being a truly dominant presence. It's the difference between being dominant and acting dominant, and I've so often been disappointed by those who merely act dominant.

I'm not entirely sure what about myself I should put here, because I don't know what is expected or desired of me at this point. As I start to figure that out, this profile will fill out better.

I should probably mention a physical characteristic of myself; I don't consider myself transgender, because it's not a defining characteristic. I'm male, with female parts. I don't usually tell people about it, because a) it defeats the purpose of having a male presentation of myself, and b) for some stupid reason, it tends to change the way people see me, and I don't like that. I'm comfortable with my genitals, but I am not comfortable with judgmental attitudes toward them.

I also have to admit, I'm something of a hopeless romantic. I'm not just looking for a Dom; I'm looking for my Master.