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Hello,

I had a profile by the same name and somehow I couldnt activate it, hence thought of creating this.

They say India is exotic, she is incredible and holds a charm by itself.

I am an Indian, by all means.

So let me detail about what I am here for.

Prior to detailing what I look for, if you are the one who believes a whip is the medium for dominance than intelligence, then I suggest you to back off from reading further.

Also if you seek a two decades and more experienced male in this lifestyle I am sorry you are at the wrong profile, I am just 45. I do have experiences with few travelling expats and other local women but it wont add up to two decades plus experience. Please be sensible I am not someone who has ventured into this since my teens.

Also please understand I am not into melo-dramatic sessions or to call you a slut, bitch or so. So if thats the kind of Dominant you look for, Happy Searching !!!

I know the one who needs me is somewhere there, one who loves a dark minded, dark loving partner and is open for his extreme games and domination. By extreme I didnt mean I will choke you, suffocate you or rape you, I find those done by those who are unsure about themselves.

I am here to earn your submission wilfully, and guide you, mentor you and inspire and motivate you both in the Vanilla world and in the lifestyle. To me a dominant is more of a trustable manager or guide to whom the submissive partner hands over all the rights regarding decision making and directions of her life.

To me, submission and dominance is not simply an art of physical play rather, it is an intellectual challenge presented by a submissive partner to a dominant partner and the dominance is the after effect of the challenge. So if you are some where within this scale or understanding do connect with me.

I am here on a serious search for the only ONE and the SPECIAL soul that is destined to be mine. I am sure there is that Special One whose Karma is to be with me, her life, thoughts, and actions shouldered with me. I will organise your life and manage your schedules and processes, which again doesnt mean you have to be a be-at-home wife. I seek someone with a pride, respect and esteem and definitely having a life of her own. I want you to be socially active, having own opinions and policies, beliefs and concepts that makes you the real YOU. In short, I dont need a slave or a pet or a doll or a meat. I ask for a partnership , the one and only relationship where eventually I will be everything for you as you will be for me, still keeping our social space intact and perfectly stable.

I understand that life brings to you, what you yearn for and here I seek a mature flower that loves to have its honey extracted by me.

I am extreme of anything. It doesnt mean that I am here to play a butchers role, or to have you walk into munches or meets with a leash on you, I am here for a total trustable relationship where the honesty, trust, sincerity and openness matters, and is to the extreme levels without any dilution and terribly transparent and honest by all means.

I understand we all live in a normal world and has to be on the vanilla levels for public, but where ever it is possible I would love to have a partner who is open for wild fun as possible.

I havent travelled across the globe yet. But, I had extensively travelled to the length and breadth of India and the travel Industry people consider me as a travel writer who knows Unknown India to the deepest levels. But I love to be with someone who can eventually be with me in my trips and share the interest of ancient history, archaelogy, anthropology, museums, arts and culture. Someone who has the energy and vibrancy to keep up the pace with me and is open for exploring this wonderful world together.

My ideal partner would be a mature, sensual, loving caring lady willing to submit to me and understands that I am the real Partner, owning her Mind, Body and Soul.

I am seeking long term, preferably lifelong relationship where both partners understands that they exist for each other and the vacuum is filled by each others presence. Its not someone owning a pet but rather specifically two adults sharing their life to complete it and make it whole.

Profession wise ,I am a writer and freelance journalist which makes me a bit Creative with regards to my likings. I am into anything ranging from History, Arts, Archaeology, Museums, Philosophy, Psychology, Anthropology and the list goes on and on. I prefer someone well read,who is into music, movies, arts and have topics to discuss rather than being bound into some stupid stuff like latex or rubber. I need a thinking human being not a piece of art or idol at home.

When I say home I mean it as a lively, fun-filled home where both partners are active. Where both partners makes it whole and where both partners indulge into sensual love making. There is a flow of organic life in such homes. Yes I agree, I am dominant but that doesnt mean you shouldnt have a say or opinion. Its OUR HOME not a dungeon, cave or cage for you. I am not a jailor for sure.

I am not here for scams and neither interested in such things. Please note I am 45 now and had my share of experiences over life. I am a freelance journalist, a management consultant, a human resource trainer and so and is also self employed. Though I may not be rich and particularly after an accident that happened few months back my resources are pretty dry as I was on rest for few months. Adding salt to the wound, a devastating flood which occurred in my place last year has stalled few of the projects I was working with bringing myself to a situation of nearly broke. Again it is a matter of time to stabilize myself back and being a self-made personality these obstacles are not something that makes me to back out myself from this wonderful life. I know my limitations and understanding it well, I am open to anyone who is serious. Whether you are poor or rich is not a concern for me, but being honest and genuine atleast to yourself matters.

I believe if one cannot be trustworthy to oneself, they cant be genuine and honest to others.

Also please be age appropriate as I am not seeking a grandmother or a small daughter for me. I wont mind my partner taking such roles but prefer herself to be within 10 years frame either younger or elder to me. If a bit elder to me it would be perfect as I am sure she might have had her shares of kinky life herself.

I am loaded with creative kinks and perversions and hence I seek some one who can scale up to the vibrancy and is willing to let give me the reins of her life and let me make her walk to the moon hands in hand , together. You are not behind or in front, but you are along with me in this journey. Equal yet totally submitted. And I love the contradiction of you being in charge yet being submitted. The dynamics is so powerful yet totally exotic.

And though we may have fun and plays with others as we both devise, but I am not into poly arrangement. Though I prefer to be the total and only one partner to the mind, body and soul of my partner, if my partner is keen for a bit casual outside fun I wont mind it as long as she remains mine primarily. To me I want my energy, resources and time channelled to that SPECIAL ONE and is not to be scattered among multiple partners. And I am not here to start an wholesale shop or business of supplying submissives.

Finally, I think you should know that I am separated from family and is just serving as a monthly cheque for my ex wife and kid who lives separate from me, which gives me ample freedom to venture into a serious soulful and meaningful relationship.I am living in India, but am willing to connect with woman from any where but for rea
MistressAlexa007
 
 Age: 29
 Southbridge, Massachusetts