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What I need

I crave someone interesting and driven, who has a life that is good without the requirement for someone to make their life fulfilling. That said, you should appear to be normal, but with that darkness that you only show to a select few. I reject those who submit for the sake of submission. Let me delight your head and excite the dirty creature inside you.


You must be feminine. I dont necessarily mean high maintenance, but having a hair and makeup addiction isnt a bad thing.
You should not be overly religious or conservative.
You should not consider yourself a little, a pet, or a switch.
You want something IRL (In real life).
You crave bruises and feeling used sexually.

Im drawn to fit (What Do I Give in Return?I value trust, and my goal is to build something epic and important. I am not looking for a playmate or something that scratches an itch, but a partner who I enjoy spending time with (regardless of how far from the bedroom we might be). A list of kinks doesnt define you, and your experience is unimportant as long as you have a desire to explore. Im more interested in the experience than almost anything else. The fewer limits that you have, the more cravings you have, the better well get along. Almost nothing is off limits for me, and my cravings are probably much darker than they may appear on the surface.Im an avid hiker, backpacker, and occasional runner. I would have classified myself as a nerd or a geek long ago, but age has worn most of that away. Today Id consider myself a normal guy in most respects. Im not a sports fan, but I love building things (house, car, garden, or art). My vanilla side is mature when it counts, but I love to laugh and make others laugh (and have an immature side), youll find it offsets my Ds side quite well. Im a professional who owns his own house and car. Im single (divorced), Im emotionally available and have room in my life for someone special.

2/16/2016 5:59:18 AM
Went to a BDSM conference over the weekend. This isn't the first time I've gone, but this is the first time I've gotten a lot out of it. I remember sitting in a class (about proper aftercare), and thinking how many people take BDSM so lightly and yet it consumes them. It's like a game that they use to escape from the rest of their life.

I have my life. I enjoy my life. Sure BDSM fits into that life, but it is not the blindfold I wear to hide the rest of the world.

Love yourself, and your life... otherwise D/s will never be anything more than cosplay for you.
NyxPontia
 
 Age: 25
 Parker, Colorado