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How wrong can you be? All my life - all my fucken' life - I was into women's lib n'all that shit. Women men's equals, yada yada etc etc etc. Not any more. I've seen the light, Oh Lord, I seen the light. Men Are In Charge. Long, happy but equal relationship ended, kaput. Seeking happy but unequal relationships / encounters. Short, long or indeterminate but unequal. So, I'm a newbie dom - some BDSM experience over the years but basically learning. Means: if you long for an army colonel type, that's not me. Call me - call me a "recovering sensitive". That's like "recovering alcoholic" or "recovering drug addict" - every day recovering more and more from the nightmare of equality, consideration and "well dear, what do YOU want to do", more and more relishing the sane sobriety of clear rules and protocols, firm discipline and strict punishment. The plus side of all the sensitive crap is that I'm real quick to read people and I _will_ find you where you live inside and you can't hide from me and you can't get away with stuff. And I know that real submission takes time and trust, and that comes in steps. We chat a little, we meet for a coffee, we negotiate. I take charge. If you like the first step then you give a bit more trust and I take charge a bit more ... until ... you just might ... have all control taken away ... and that might just be ... the love you've always longed for. Provided you're a good girl, I'm very affectionate. In the end I'm looking for an LTR but all options open. Age games welcome. The main requirement - call me a fetishist if you must - is that you WILL like heels. Flat shoes, or insistence thereon, are so very boringly feminist. I'm a trained hypnotist and into exploring all aspects of mind control and mental BDSM. Bedroomwise I can enjoy being caned, because I like very intense experiences but it's like a harem girl flogging a bent, perverted Arab prince because he orders her to, she'd be mistaken to think she's in charge. I'm not mainly into sadism as such but basically I'm poly-kinky and willing to try anything. Loacation: I live in Bristol but potentially willing to travel, oh, Manchester / Birmingham / London, depends on the gig. I got bored with all the categories in the profile. They don't mean diddly-squat in terms of getting on with someone. If you want to know, ask. I'm self-employed. An exchange or two of chat/non-copypaste email and I'll send a photo, all the usual reasons to not have one up here yet.