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I have a busy lifestyle, but desire to spend time in some degree of a D/s relationship. Not necessarily M/s or TPE.
Bondage is one of the few things that turn me on, but I am looking for something more than just sex. I'm not really into leather/decorationism and I tend not to socialize in "scene" events.
I enjoy causing pain, but its really a two way thing. The receiver has to respond properly to it for me to enjoy dishing it out. I also LOVE getting my neck nibbled on/bit, even though that seems counter-intuitive. I still like to be in control when that is going on. I also like getting my fingers nibbled on.
I recently moved back to tahoe from berkeley/sf and want to meet new, like minded people. I have some experience in the past with a veteran submissive and know how to keep things safe and talk it all out and negotiate before anything happens. This is really important and must be done no matter what. It still occurs more naturally than you might think, and isn't procedural like a doctor's office visit.
If you msg me, try and have the tone more casual and relaxed. Don't mention specifics until there is a level of rapport built up. Its much better that way.
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