Being submissive… doesn't equate to being dumb, weak, insecure or possessing self esteem problems. It simply means i have always felt a natural tendency and need to give of myself when in the company of a strong, confident, genuinely dominant female and an inherent need to serve her pleasure. Pleasing her is how one like me shows complete love and devotion, but in this aspect the sub as me receives much joy in the heart also , knowing that it is his servitude to her that gives her joy, a feeding frenzy of each others nature as one.