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Hi-- I am a nearly-finished Ph.D. student in one of the humanities. I am technically new to the lifestyle, although I have served the role of a DaddyDom in past relationships, and it is a role I have been greatly missing in other vanilla relationships I've had since. I have been interested, as long as I can remember, in hypnosis and conditioning in sex-- in maintaining intense mental and emotional dominance over a partnership, in training and shaping my partner's needs and physical responses to make her feel things she never felt possible, both in and out of the bedroom. This is something I have explored deeply in many of my relationships, but I am always looking to expand it further. The first step is finding someone worthy of being with me for a long, long time.

I have disassociated myself from the lifestyle as it is traditionally known for a long time, because I am simply not interested in either inflicting or experiencing pain and humiliation beyond a certain mild threshold, nor am I am interested in making that activity the center of attention in a sexual relationship. I have experienced both physical and mental subservience... and I know from experience that the same kind of sexual and spiritual intensity that a lot of people seek from being gagged, cut, whipped, etc., can be found and may even be more intense while in deep trance.

I want a long-term monogamous relationship built on friendship, trust, loyalty and intense chemistry on both sides... but of course it takes time to build all of these things. The "training proper"-- the slow conditioning of your mind and body around our relationship-- can only really begin once you have my trust, and I have yours.

What I ultimately want to find is a smart, strong, funny woman who wants to experience the exhilaration of letting go to someone regularly and completely, of letting her body and mind slip further and further under the control of my voice and touch every day we spend together, becoming completely addicted to the feeling of being next to me, of learning day by day to feel completely safe and cared-for in a way she has never known. She'll be my peer, my friend, my steadfast and completely loyal lover, my little girl.

If this sounds like it might be you,  a year or two down the road, or if you want further clarification on what I have in mind... well, just drop me an email. Right now, I'm mostly looking for women in their mid-20s to late 30s, no more than 30 minutes from Tallahassee.
Mistressjewls
 
 Age: 42
 Tucson, Arizona