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| I'm looking for an in-person Mistress or a play partner, but my goal is to find someone who wants a long-term relationship, whether than means 24/7 D/s or it means some play and the rest of the time we are simply happy with each other and share our lives together. I don't mind if you're dominant all the time; a woman in control is wonderful. I've had some experience with cuckolding and Poly relationships and am open to both of those possibilities if it was with the right primary partner.
I like a mutual physical attraction, but the mental attraction is more important. I love to laugh and make jokes, and I can be happy just hanging out watching movies or taking you out. I can't tell you what my ideal partner would look like physically; I just know an attraction when I see it. Curves and such are not an issue; in general I am more attracted to voluptuous women.
I'm a bit of a character. I have a sharp sense of humor which can sometimes be dark or sarcastic. Laughter is an important part of life, and I try to do as much as possible every day. My laughter can be loud and contagious. I try not to hold that in. I love to joke around and pull people's legs but when it comes to important things I am honest and open. Funny, caring, and intelligent are the first three adjectives people use to describe me.
I am a full-time animal lover. I have two black cats at the moment. I've never had children so they're my immediate family in a way. I've seen memes that reflect my philosophy of people: you can tell a lot about someone by how they treat waitstaff in restaurants, what they do with their shopping carts, and how they treat animals.
I like to write and have self-published one memoir. I hope to get more focused on writing again when life settles into a new routine. I also love to read but haven't done as much of that in recent years as I used to. I am a movie buff and find my favorite films are not necessarily the ones that make such big splashes today. There are some moves I can watch over and over, and some I can almost recite line by line. I'm notorious for quoting lines from movies or selected TV shows. My movie tastes are very eclectic, from classics to comedy to horror to drama to romance to quirky to cult films. I'm a lifelong fan of shows like Columbo, The Prisoner, The X-Files, Millennium, and Twin Peaks. I don't watch much network television these days.
My musical tastes are also varied. I listen to a lot of classic rock, independent artists of today, classical, new wave, some progressive...it just depends what mood I am in. I couldn't even begin to list favorite artists; I grew up on the Beatles and Simon & Garfunkel and Billy Joel and what was classic rock back then (bands from the 60's). Sometimes certain artists become special favorites at different times, like Joe Jackson or Grand Funk Railroad or Antje Duvekot or Yes or Fleetwood Mac or music that helped me through hard times or carried me through happy times. In the car - aside from some sports radio - I mainly only listen to CD's. A wide variety of them. The last three I listened to were: Allman Brothers - Eat a Peach, The Cult - Greatest Hits, and The Best of the Doors.
I am a gentleman. I hold doors. I open the car door for you and let you in first. I carry a handkerchief in case it is needed. I love to hold hands. When I am with you, that's my focus, not the woman walking past us. I love to make my partner feel special, treasured, and cherished. That could mean gifts, or cards, or letters, or flowers. Or just little notes to remind you. I give everything of myself when I am in love.
And yes I have a job and a car.
If you think you could be the person I am looking for, or you just want to talk on here and see about potentially becoming play partners, add me as a friend and shoot me a message.
My biggest weaknesses are a sexy pair of boots, a disarming laugh, or an evil smirk.
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