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	i am Looking for a Dom over the age of 38. Please no one younger than 38 and no older than 43. Please be at least 6'3". If you are not then you are wasting my time. Tatoos are sooooo hot. Thank you Sir/Daddy No chat requests please. Chat does not seem to work very well on here for me. Please do not ask to be put on my friends list before you contact me first. I will not put you on my friends list before we become friends. No exceptions!!!! NO LONG DISTANCE!!!!!! You must live in Toronto or within 45 Km!!! By the way I don't care how often you visit Toronto I am not interested in meeting for casual chat or get togethers. Visiting is still long distance. I am not willing to relocate! To those that are willing to relocate for the right person, that is wonderful, but I am not willing to chat until you are local. Too many have used the Line that they are willing to relocate just to start chatting. NO LONG DISTANCE!!! NO LONG DISTANCE!!!!! I don't care how much or often to travel. Until you move to the area it makes you long distance. I am not looking to make online friends or to make online chat buddies. I have real life friends that i don't have enough time for ergo I am not seeking online friends. What I seek is real life person to person encounters only. Please do not ask to be friends before you even contact me first. I will not accept the friend list before I get to know you. Please no switches or subs or people that are willing to settle for switches. NO bisexual men.I do not wish to chat or make online friends or online mentors, no exceptions. I have trusted and well respected local Doms/Dommes friends within the lifestyle. Some that have over twenty years real life experience. I receive all the real life mentoring and guidance that one can use. You should be very experienced; i am not seeking a novice Dom. Please keep in mind that i am an unabashed masochist. I am not looking for casual play, casual play partners or fuck buddies. I am also not interested in being a third, or couples and i am not interested in poly whatsoever. If you are married or attached in any way I am not interested. Please be single. Sex is not my primary goal. There are far more important things in a BDSM relationship. If BDSM is all about or primarily about sex to you then we will not fit. The mindset is far more important PLEASE, PLEASE. PLEASE DO NOT SEND DICK PICs. all they do is make you look like a stupid loser. If you do not have a reasonably detailed profile and a BDSM checklist then please do not reply. The BDSM checklist is extremely important to me. The checklist helps give me an insight as to the play that you enjoy. The checklist is not perfect but it is a very good start. If you don't have it filled out then as i said earlier, do not respond. One or two line messages show a lack of imagination or intelligence. Do you honestly think that those types of message deserve anything other than a negative reply? Please try to show that you have taken some time and thought into you email. Form letter responses are equally sad. Please do not ask for photos before I get to know you well. I will not send out photos just because you want them. I save them for those that I trust. NO SMOKERS PLEASE!!! Thank you

4/12/2008 10:32:50 PM

My pet peeves; from guys that think with their little heads instead of the head on their shoulders.

DICK PICS. Who do you think you are impressing? All you do is show how stupid you are.

ASKING FOR PICS!. Why do you ask for pics before you even get to know the person? It makes you look as though looks are the only thing you are interested in.

GUYS THAT DON’T BOTHER READING THE PROFILE! need I say more?

GUYS THAT DON’T FIT THE CRITERIA (usually because they didn’t read the profile)! These are the guys that don’t fit and get all pissy when you point out all the reasons that they are not a fit. It is our entire fault because we have standards and write out clearly what those limits are.

GUYS THAT DON’T THINK THAT THE LIMITS OR CRITERIA APPLY TO THEM! These guys write you stating that they know that they don’t fit but because they are so great we should make an exception just for them. You say no long distance and they respond to you from another country or other long distances. WHY??????

FORM LETTERS! Is there anything more lazy or more pathetic than form letters?

ONE LINERS! One or two line responses are so lazy and pathetic. It shows lack of imagination. If that is all the effort they are willing to make a good first impression it makes you wonder how little effort they are willing to put into a relationship. Come on guys try and impress us with you brains not your laziness.