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youinhalf

Looking for my other half. I am a sadist by every definition of the word. I cannot get off or find any sexual pleasure in "vanilla" sex or even light bdsm. I get off on being cruel. I am looking for a masochist. This is just the sexual side of me though. Beyond that, I want to find someone that I connect mentally with. Please be able to hold an intelligent conversation. I can be pretty pessimistic at times. I spend a lot of my time thinking about the problems and bullshit of this world and at times I over think and would probably be better off if I was ignorant to the whole system. I drink often and am a smoker. Just being honest as most people I meet describe me as "cold". I would't quite agree with that, but don't message me if your overly sensitive. There is nothing at all attractive about that. I want a relationship first and BDSM second. In my opinion, you cannot have a healthy D/s relationship if you don't first have a strong foundation. Just to make this clear I AM NOT looking for something temporary. I am looking for a long-term relationship. Currently in the Air Force at Langley.
kt67
 
 Age: 37
  Missouri