I am a 20 year old male sub. I have been into the scene for over a year and half in which I’ve already experienced a lot and been to Club Pedestal a few times. I’ve had the fortune of having been shown the scene by a Divine pro Domme to whom I will always grateful for this, but I’m not interested in pro-domme sessions anymore. I’m out to make some new friends, maybe some occasional meets and ideally a Long-term relationship.
In normal life I am a student and generally a laid back, friendly person. My main hobbies are music, sport, reading and travelling. I love going to gigs, playing guitar (bass + a bit of normal) and listening to Punk, ska-core, post,folk,indie- rock, hardcore, death,black, thrash,doom -metal etc etc. Just like being active, if its going for a run, weight training, trekking in nature; anything really. I read a lot of nonfiction books and generally try to lead a non-apathetic life in which I don’t contribute to mass suffering or the permanent destruction of our planet. This apparently makes me very radical =(. Otherwise I have been fortunate enough to have travelled around a fair bit in my life already and am fluent in three languages because of this.
In terms of relationships, the sexual/physical gratifying part of a relationship matters but so does the emotional; being someone else's property, someone who cares and has the exact opposite need to you to own/overpower someone. Submitting to someone else's desires and putting their ones way above yours is obviously one the most important aspects for me, however it is of benefit if the other party at least knows yours (even if it is just to manipulate you):
Foot/shoe/boot worship
Tease and denial
Humiliation (can take the form of forced feminization)
Being collared
General body worship
Strap on/anal play
Slapping
Spitting
Trampling
gags/some breath play
Pet Play
Some CP
gloves
.....the list carries on
Limits include any too extreme pain which results in permanent scars and too much blood.