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	***this needs to be known that i am currently in a relationship and am not looking for anyone for play or relationships right now. please do not contact me for more than chat and friendship**** ok where to begin. i am very new to all of this. i have been in 2 relationships that involved bdsm to a point. i was almost involved with a couple where the man was dom in and out of bedroom and wanted almost complete control over his wife and my life. things just didn't work out there. the other relationship involved soft bdsm i guess you can call it. there was choking and my riding crop and control in the bedroom but we were equal outside the bedroom. i guess i am not really sure what i am looking for. i dont know what my limits are yet. i wont know until a situation is presented to me really. i want to push my limits with pain a little more. i am also by nature willing to be a doting house wife and stay at home mother, that is my career goal in life really. not sure how i feel yet about giving up complete control in decisions and the household yet tho. it can be considered and maybe welcomed if the right person comes along. i would also be interested in a poly relationship or household. i am bisexual and do love to get to be with a women. sometimes even better when its a reward not a privilege. i guess right now i am looking for sexual experiences and if i find myself more in this kind of life a relationship. i like to know from the other person exactly what they want so i know not to get attached. i admire complete openness and honesty. if you can not do that for me but expect it from me then walk the other way. i know doesn't sound like a sub but it is how i am. ask and i will answer. i am an open book and will answer anything you ask me. i must add......please no profiles without pics. i want a pic to prove who you are or at least confirm you are not spam. i have one and i expect the same.

9/13/2010 1:53:39 PM

i am actually considering a female sub for my self. i wont lie and say i would enjoy a sex slave. doesnt need to be more than that i think. the idea of making a hot young thing lick my shoes while wearing nothing but a collar turns me on. completely different than what i am looking for in a man. i would love to learn to tame my dominant side. i am entertaining the idea of a full time female slave but in my head still not actually going to happen. anyways i would like to find myself as a sub and better that part of my life before i will feel i am worthy of someone giving me the same gift i want to give to my dom. just a thought i wanted to share.

9/10/2010 1:44:27 PM

the more i talk to people i have met on here who are from all walks of life and do all types of bdsm the more i learn about what i myself want.
i see way too often people being brainwashed into being slaves. now i see nothing against an honest slave master relationship. that is great. if the slave willing has given claim to the master.

i don't feel it is right to do the whole "who do you belong to?" unless they have already willingly stated they belong to you.

when i decide who i belong to it is forever not just for fun and games. i am not going to give myself to someone if i don't feel or know really that i am appreciated and truly wanted,
i want a man who will be honored to have me and feel blessed i have given that gift to him. i do not give myself freely.
i don't want someone who wants to hold me back and limit me for their pleasure. i want someone who wants to help and watch me grow as a human being.
this would be a life long relationship and both need to be happy with that choice or it wont work. i am not a slave. i wont ever be a slave. that needs to be perfectly clear. i want everything i do to be appreciated and i want to know it is.
i am one to make things as easy and happy a life for my partner as possible.

9/10/2010 10:31:16 AM

here i sit wondering where i am going and what is to follow. i have been doing a lot of research into the lifestyle and the different options i have.

i am reading into taken in hand. there is a website all about it where people share their feelings. i am actually very interested in that. i have always wanted, well needed someone who can put me back in my place if need be. i have always wanted a place first of all. i want to belong.

i can be a mess of emotions. i am a highly emotional person and need someone who can bring me back to balance when i go off.
i know it sounds crazy to give into certain stereotypes. but women are more emotional by nature and i think they need the strong hand of a man to put them back in balance at times.
we are natural nurturers and child bearers. we were designed to be mothers and wives and make everyone under our wing and make sure they are loved. in return men were designed to be hunters, and the heads of the house. to provide safety and the necessities to survive to their women and children.
i very much so feel this way. i was not raised this way. the complete opposite actually. my mother always drilled into our heads to be strong independent women and never need a man to take care of us. here i am 22 years later looking for a strong willed, strong bodied, and strong minded man to take care of me. to make me feel safe and secure and give me the things i need in life to survive.