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I'm looking for Mrs. Right.  Have you seen her? I'm a Real Person first and foremost.  I don't define myself by whom I fuck or what I do to them.  You shouldn't either.  Anyone who expects to be called Master or Lord or Slave or such by people they're not in a relationship with gets nothing but contempt. I am (or have been) a geek, a machinist, a biomedical informaticist, a rocketeer, a photographer, a sailor, a pilot, a radiochemist, a diver.  I'm also a purportedly-lovable misanthrope and a jack of all trades and master of several. That said, I sure do like to do things to people. :) I have a two-digit Wet Spot member number (and have done thousands of hours of volunteer work for them), but I haven't been there in many years.  I've done the poly thing before.  I'm not excited about doing it again, but it's not necessarily a dealbreaker. I want to find the right person for (eventually) a real, lifelong, committed relationship that includes friendship, love, sex, and kink.  Someone who can integrate both 24/7 and Real Life.  Someone who can hold her own in an intelligent debate and isn't afraid to disagree with me, but still knows who holds the reins (and where those reins are attached...).  Someone who can both take care of herself and be taken care of.  Someone who isn't afraid to pick up a welder and teach herself, but wear skirts, stockings, and heels the rest of the time.  Someone who can ask for what she wants, but accept that she isn't the one who decides what she gets. Impossible?  Probably.  But if that sounds like you, I'd love to get to know you.  And I'm all for making new friends (platonic or otherwise) along the way. Oh, and if you can't spell pretty damned well and come close to using proper grammar, don't bother.  That includes C/creative S/stupid C/capitalization.