I received a weird email regarding my poly relationship today
the best part was unprovoked i was accused of corrupting someones innocence and having them break their vows in their marriage
well the funny thing is I have no issue with corrupting someones innocence> LOL
but in this case that wasn't true at all.
actually I didn't start my search for my currant slave by looking for a M/s relationship or a Poly one for that matter
It kind of evolved all by itself
My slave for the past 4 years is Married Yes I knew that
she was looking for a Master yep I knew that too
Her Hubby was full on board with her searching for one and having play partners
Yep
why Because she had needs and desires he just couldn't fill
in no way on earth could he Hit her not even in a loving way
so basically he couldn't flog, spank, beat, whip or nothing like that.
so If anyone corrupted anyone I would say it was I who was "corrupted" into poly> chuckles
let me be honest
Poly is not for the majority
shit not even for the minority
it actually takes a lot of self searching
it takes alot of honesty and transparency
if there is one thing I had to learn right off the bat
it/s that there is no room in poly for someone who doesn't have their shit together
you can't bring a ton of personal baggage into a poly rship
it will fester and grow to create havoc
for me personally this relationship works
I would have never thought it would 3 years ago but it has been growing and building into the most for real relationship I have ever had with anyone
and I was married for 23 years!
I do Not recommend a Poly relationship to anyone
I surely don't try to make someone think its for them or they should do it
each person has to do their own self searching to answer that question
one thing for sure is In a true Poly relationship
NO ONE is cheating on anyone
it has ten fold the transparency as any other relationship
Ten Fold the honesty
after all if one cant be honest with themselves how in the world are they going to be honest with two other people?
yes I said Two because to be in a poly rship you will be dealing with at least two other peoples feelings , needs,wants and honesty
so in the end Yep I'm in a happy Poly relationship
didn't plan it that way but it works!
If you don't like that, thats OK
YOU were not invited to join :)
