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chainedrose7
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For many of the friends I have made on this site, I am sorry for my long absence in both the lifestyle and in your lives. I have had so many things on my plate and issues come up that I needed a length of time where I could finally catch up. I hope no one has taken this "break" as anything personal,many of you have not heard a peep out of me in more then a month, if not longer. I hope to find you all well as I start to gradually ease back into things.
Aries
7/06/09
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I'm not your average dominant male, I don't require you to be what I am looking for but rather for us to compliment each other. I won't bark orders at you through an email, or tell you that since you label yourself as a submissive (or slave) that you were born to serve anyone and everyone that you come into contact with.
I will however take the time to get to know you, learn about you and earn your trust before anything "life style" occurs. I'm seriously seeking a match, not a fling or a hook up! And though I may be young, only thirty, I have more then enough experience and have no problem admitting to being level headed and sane.
I also understand the importance of caring for the one who has just so willingly let you abuse them, the connection of a dom and sub/slave is a gentle balance, a yin and yang so to speak. Pain may bring pleasure to some degree, but I will never forget that we are all human and that there is time for nurturing and love after play.
If I take the time to respond to an ad that means you have caught my eye in some way or another, maybe I think we would get along or that our interests might gel. This life style is so selective and unforgiving to the single male, sometimes its frustrating to receive no response to an inquiry. however, I will push on and hope to realize my dream of a mutually wanton relationship.
I am happiest, sexually, when I can explore and indulge in my alternative desires. I enjoy everything regarding the life style, respect it, and partake regularly when I get the chance.
Ideally I would like to find a slave/sub that is looking for total dominance, someone who needs guidance in this life style. I have no qualms about teaching you how to be the submissive you desire to be, just understand that communication is key. The last thing either of us want is for me to push you to be the sub you "might" want to be.
Tease my mind and arouse my senses and you'll have me hooked! I don't have a type of person I'm attracted to, I've always believed that personality makes the person. I feel I bring that to the table and more. I tend to lean towards younger people, its hard for me to think of myself as dominant over someone older. I do hope this doesn't offend anyone.
I enjoy doing rope bondage and role plays, would never judge for what YOU are interested in, love administering anal play of any kind. I keep an open mind to anything and everyone, with out this one might lose sight of their goal or miss something very special.
I aspire to find a sub/slave who knows that she is making her master proud when she is serving. I only ask that you stay open minded as well.
Lets chat, I'm a genuine friend, if nothing else. Maybe we can share ideas, stories or adventures? Give each other tips? this life style is shrouded in so much secrecy that it can be hard for someone just starting out. I'm more then willing to share a few industry secrets ;)
Above all else, if we make a connection or not, have a fun and safe trip :)
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It would seem as of late that my profile gets viewed more by bisexual, gay or strait men. I don't see any reason for you folks not to mail me, its always nice to find a new message in your inbox. However, and let me preface this by saying that I'm extremely flattered and thank you all for your time. I am not now, nor do I plan to be in the near future, taking on any men as submissive/slaves.
I understand that this life style is so unforgiving to us men, and that its more common to find a male who is sub/slave, maybe its something to do with the male/female balance in the world. Us men have been known to be the more macho and front runners of the species for oh so many years. I can understand that the desire of something so taboo can be so alluring. I don't knock you men for anything you desire, in fact I'll be the first to tell you to go out and find what you're looking for and maybe even watch ;)
However, what I will say is this.. To the men who are contacting me, you are bringing a baseball glove to a football game, a sword to a gun fight. As much as I would very much enjoy chatting (and with some of you I have) I do not see myself taking on any of you as sub/slave at this time. It is just not what I am looking for.
I wish you luck, and cross my fingers that you all read full profiles before you message. If not then I will direct you to this post.
thanks again,
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To those who view my account, please don't take my profile as uppity or allow it to make me come off as an ass. I am only looking for the release we all seem to be here for. I am real, one hundred percent! I am down to earth, intelligent and can hold a conversation like nobodies business! Take the time to get to know me and you will not just find a friend but also an accomplice or partner in crime. I am seeking fulfillment from this site, but fulfillment comes in many different forms. To assume that I can only be a dominant male would be to judge this book of a million words and paragraphs by only glancing at its cover. I am multifaceted, cultural, independent, friendly and adventurous. I seek people from all walks of life, and hope to befriend many on the long road. Lets grab a coffee, share a story or a secret. Talk to me and I promise I won't bite, at least not until you say its OK :) |
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| Age: 44 |
| Grand Rapids,
Michigan |
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