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There are lots of ways to Dominate. I am not impressed by the "shout and scream" style. A true Dom/Master doesn't need to do that. Instead, in my view, he should practice the old, "Speak softly and carry a big stick" approach. My sub or slave, once she is past the very early stages will know that my quiet "request" is an absolute command, and she will know that she must react immediately to carry it out as quickly and as well as possible. It seems to me that the quiet approach is far more powerful, and it indicates far more clearly the control that the Dom/Master exercises. My look will demonstrate my power. My soft but clearly commanding voice will do likewise. You will see something in the look, and hear something in the voice which will make it VERY clear that I am indeed in control of you, and that consequences, sometimes dire consequences, will follow anything less than your very, very best efforts. I'm an experienced, creative, demanding Dom/Master seeking a sub or consensual slave. I like newbies and relative newbies and humbly believe I am a very good, patient teacher, but I'm open to experienced as well. I like to take total charge and mold my sub or slave to be just what I want her to be but I also pay attention to what she is experiencing and want this to work for her- it can't really work for me if it doesn't also work for her. To continue what I said above, part of my job is to mold you into what I want you to be, but the other part is to bring out the best in you, to help you to reach your goals, in some sense to demand that you reach them, or at least make great efforts in that direction, as part of your service to me. I take this responsibility very seriously. If BBW, be willing to work on that under my direction if we reach the stage where you're taking my direction. Looking for something that is ongoing, maybe even long term, but it doesn't really start that way; it starts one day at a time, and I'm cool with that. If the right person came along I would be open to 24/7, but it would really need to be right,otherwise it will be what it will be, and it will last as long as it will last. I won't jump into a 24/7 but if it heads in that direction, GREAT! That would be the ultimate.
This is serious business but it should be fun, too (well, when it can be and depending on one's definition), and we should be fun together. If we can't laugh, can't smile, can't sometimes just be quiet together, what's the point. We should like each other and have some areas of common interest beyond BDSM. Having said that I should tell you about some of my interests: I am an avid reader (the classics, Vonnegut, Vidal, Jeannette Winterson, Christopher Moore, mysteries, histories, biographies, philosophies- and on and on). I am fit and work hard at it (walk an hour on the treadmill or outdoors every day- about 4 1/4 to 4 1/3 miles), try to eat healthy but occasional forays into Indian, Mexican, Thai, Japanese... are more than welcome. I write novels (none published as yet), have a long history in the theater as an actor and director, and love to play bridge. I enjoy a good political discussion but have no illusions that the Demopublicans or the Republicrats will fix things any time soon. Probably best if you aren't particularly religious as that just doesn't work for me and it usually leads to way too much heat and not much light at all- don't care what you believe as long as religion isn't a big part of your life.. Finally, I love to travel. I've been on four continents. Loved most of the places I've visited- Budapest was Eastern and exotic, Bangkok was beautiful and peace inducing (once I got out of the traffic), Santiago was charming, Stratford upon Avon was a little piece of heaven (though I don't believe in heaven). I have two graduate degrees and all my own teeth.

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MissSycophant
 
 Age: 43
  Rhode Island