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I've been a sub since before I knew what it was. I was married to a wonderful Dominant partner. Unfortunately I lost her to a freak accident a few years back. I have been reluctant to try to experience the lifestyle again but finally think I am ready. I was recently asked here on CM what it is that I am looking for. That was hard to answer - at least at first. But it got me to thinking about it. I would like to find a friend in the lifestyle that would like the occasional companionship of a fun, submissive gentleman. I am always expected to be in control and have the answers, so I would like a friendship where I don't have to be that way. I don't put pressure on myself about dating or meeting someone new. I'm not expecting that the next person I meet will be "The One." Meeting someone is like any other kind of dating: I hope it will be fun and that we enjoy each other's company -- hopefully enough we will want to get together again.

I have experienced many wonderful things in this lifestyle, with learning to totally focus on my partner for her pleasure and enjoyment being number one. I am intelligent and a gentleman, open-minded and eager to learn and experience. I keep myself fit and active, both on the water and snow. I'm not looking to grow up just yet.
UrSexKitten
 
 Age: 35
  Idaho