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wildflowerinpalm

Hi. I'm a spankee looking for my spanker :D

I am submissive and masochistic and would identify my most important kinks as spanking and just feeling dominated. I am fairly new and haven't tried much so I dont really know what other things I am into.

I like to be restrained by being held (I have never tried bondage, interested though). I like to feel punished, though I am not sure how I would feel about punishment for real-life serious things.

Aside from spanking I enjoy running (don't start picturing some ultra marathoner or anything though--I'm more of a plodder), and reading fiction (sci-fi) and non-fiction (mostly science or math related). I am thinking about getting my PhD in mathematics, so I may be relocating soon. I love playing hockey; one of the criteria on my "would I like to live there list" is the presence of an adult rec hockey league. I prefer to dress casually, and sometimes have issues with matching (at least according to the fashion gurus in my life). I am a little goofy, a little geeky, and a bit of a tomboy. I am a work in progress, still trying to figure out what I want to be when I "grow up". Personally I think I'd be happiest as a perpetual student but that is somewhat impractical.

Myers-Briggs personality tests label me as an INTP and the absent-minded professor image fits me pretty well.

I am looking for someone who REALLY likes to give spankings :D

You are nurturing and sadistic, patient and demanding, kind, loving, and looking for a real long term relationship.

You dont want to micro-manage someone but do want to help them become the best person they can be both inside and outside of the bedroom.

7/25/2010 3:58:21 PM
Ok.... so I actually put up some info in my profile and am now being inundated with one-liner e-mails that I really don't know how to respond to. I am not very good at small talk.

So to anyone out there who actually wants to get to know each other (ie NOT just looking for some quick online fun) send me a substantial e-mail that provides some insight into who you are. And I will respond in detail.

I am a thinker, some would say overanalyzer, who is not into casual play with strangers. I am not going to play online with you... unless I already know you and even then... probably not.  

The kinds of things you could talk about:
-what does being dominant mean to you? What do you get out of it?
-what kind of submission are you looking for?
-what are the most importants things in life for you?
-random trivia about yourself
-anything really that lets me know more about who you really are.

I know, I know... I'm asking for a lot here. Feel free to ask me anything, I will try to answer as honestly as possible.
cookiiecupcake
 
 Age: 32
  New York