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I am a solid Dominant and married. She is aware of my search as she has little desire to be a full submissive, I am seeking one true, loyal, and submissive woman willing to submit to me to enjoy the fruits of a strong union - we will enjoy all parts of the lifestyle. I have dedicated much of my life to self-discipline and perfection of self, not that it can be achieved, but the process is worth the frustration. I have a background in the, business and professional world, supporting military, community involvement, and I read voraciously. I am a professional - in the traditional sense of the term - a term so misused in our society as to make it useless, but after holding several advanced degrees and working in a field where client trust and confidence is vital, I can proudly say that I AM A PROFESSIONAL - and I love what I do as well as the clients I work with. Because of that, I am not going to reveal my identity quickly - not out of any sense of shame, because I am quite proud of the man I've become, my roots that formed the basis for my growth, and the challenges I've had to overcome to get here. I have been told I am good looking, and I am confident that most any woman I meet would find me so. I want to protect my identity because of the misconceptions that exist out in that broader world about what this lifestyle involves, and I would not want to breach that trust that I enjoy and value. What all this means to you is that you should approach me with some level of sophistication and elegance. I don't need you to be someone you're not, but hipster/gangsta/ghetto/redneck/uncouth will not fly with me. I am not one who will suffer fools gladly. All that being said, I am great person to know, am the most loyal of friends, and I've been told several times that I am the most exquisite of lovers. I have a vanilla life and have the drive and need for a submissive in my life. I am not one to be heavily involved in "the scene or public group plays". I believe there is one true woman out there who is willing to submit to me to have that strong union with which I seek. I make no judgments to anyone else who chooses to engage in that broadened relationship (as I make no judgments to those in life in general, least of all any alternatives in this community). To be a little more specific if it's necessary, I am married and have no kids at home. I stand 5' 10" ft. tall and am solidly built, work out at the gym regularly doing cardio and strength training. I have plenty of pictures to share once you've gained my trust. You will note that I have made no mention of sex or the bedroom up to this point - because for a strong connection and to reach optimal enjoyment in a sexual union, there must be a strong foundation in the mental aspects of a relationship or union. We can work out details of what we "like" and "need" in the bedroom once we have that union - those are simply mechanics and the means to an end - the "end" being that strong union. What am I seeking in this forum and site? Ultimately a long-lasting relationship with a single/divorced,marrried submissive woman, but I also place great value on the bond of friendship and the cohesiveness of a like-minded core group of people. My statement about not being a part of the "scene" in no way should be misinterpreted to mean that I would not value the friendship of other Doms and Dommes (I do believe that we can put our Alpha natures aside in the short term to be friends and collaborate, commiserate, and draw synergy from our experiences and travels), and any other members of this community, so please do not hesitate to contact me to strike up that communication that is so vital to our sense of belonging in this world. I don't usually write this much and am much more reserved....maybe I just woke up this morning and felt the need to express myself to this closed society which I identify - and to you individually. If anything that I've written rings true with you, please do not hesitate to contact me.

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mistressstacie11
 
 Age: 30
 Alberta, Canada