Hello, I’m Deegan. I’m a tall guy who looks intimidating on the outside but a jolly giant. I’ve lived in New Jersey my entire life and know that I would not like to live anywhere outside of this area. I love going out and having good conversations with people, whether they happen at a diner, bar, restaurant, or at someone’s house. I am a philosopher at heart and have the wisdom of a child. That is not to say that I act like one though. I view myself as hard-working, intelligent, and easy-going during my day to day life. As I’ve gone on though, I feel as though I’ve been missing a sort of passion in my life.

I love going to art galleries or museums and looking at pieces of art throughout history. To look at the beauty of these creations of mind make me think. My perception has always been my strongest attribute, I believe, and I love to exercise it on a constant basis. That is not to say that it is right or wrong for that matter but I’ve always been able to see any type of beauty and treat it the way it was meant to be treated.

You are beautiful.

Those three words are beyond truthful to all life, it is just our perceptions and the perceptions of the masses that change and distort what each of us sees and how we interpret it.

You Are Beautiful.

I am looking for someone that I can share my life with. Yes the clichéd long term commitment, for which many people have said they are searching for but are looking for something else entirely. I can with say completely and honestly that this is what I am looking for. Now that is to say that I am not looking for someone to move in with tomorrow. Take things slow get to know each other and spend time with each other. I specify, take things slowly, and I do not mean jump into bed first and then get to know each other slowly.

Onto parts of myself that aren’t vanilla though.  Monogamy is more powerful to me than sexuality. I am a switch when it comes to the D/s lifestyle. I am new to the entire thing and would like to explore all of it with the right person. I am a calm and gentle Dom and also a sub that does what he is ordered to do. I am also learning and interested in erotic hypnosis of which I am a little more experienced.