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Whisper softly to me... tell me your desires and they will become mine...
Wow, who knew that a 1 sentence profile could garner such attention!
I don't even have any photos up (yet).
I've already encountered one extremely paranoid fellow who apparently lives way too close for comfort so maybe pictures will not be the bestest of ideas **EEK**
Anyhow instead of emailing the same thing to every person who sends me their "wish list" I will put my respectful request here so that it doesn't have to be a shock later.
I will not become involved with anyone who is not consistent in their word and behavior. If you are a liar I will not deal with you, if you leave behind you a wake of "unworthy" submissives I will not deal with you, and if you can not speak of your past in cogent lessons learned I will not deal with you.
I am a very busy professional and even as a submissive I will not waste my time on game players.
I ask one simple thing - and I will post mine here in fair quid pro quo - Before I consider a friendship (essential for anything further) please tell me the following (I have modified it so that I can make a more accurate assessment, so if you have already answered there may be some follow up questions):
Tell me (no names needed) these 3 specific things about your last 5 Lifestyle relationships (if you have had fewer than 5 that is fine, I'm determining quality of character not quantity of partners and frankly they are often inversely proportionate)
a. Why did you pursue the partner? What was it about them?
b. Why did the relationship end? What was it about you? (If you are poly and the relationship is still going, what about you keeps it going?)
c. How did experiencing this relationship with this person make you a better person/Dominant?
If you are not willing to examine these things about yourself, I am not willing to engage in any further dialogue. Even if nothing happens between us you will be a healthier more insightful person for having completed this exercise.
Here are mine:
1. a. They were especially skilled at putting a person at ease.
b. I moved away.
c. I learned that I was capable of more bravery than I ever thought possible.
2. a. They were exceptionally passionate.
b. I was still very young and wasn't sure what I was looking for.
c. I learned that even if you love someone it isn't fair to them to stay in a relationship that has no future.
3. a. They looked good in leather pants (oh hell did they)
b. I failed to make sure that there was enough in common to talk about outside of the bedroom and there wasn't and I need more than just play time from my partners.
c. I learned that there is more to life than leather pants no matter how big the thing inside them is.
4. a. They wanted to settle down.
b. Um... I guess I didn't want to settle down.
c. I learned that sometimes we think we want things and then when we have them we didn't understand what we thought we wanted.
5. a. He was sooo smart and articulate and drove me wild.
b. I didn't find the cure for cancer fast enough.
c. That love doesn't end when someone dies.
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