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Update: I'm currently involved with someone so just looking for friends at the moment.
About me: I'm a female introvert who's happier at home than at clubs. I like people in small doses, but sharing an intimate space with the special people in my life is the only place I'm truly comfortable. I enjoy cooking, photography, and traveling, but I'm also a creature of habit and routine, feeling safest there after venturing out. I'm on the chubby side but maintaining a healthy lifestyle is something I'm working on, so it's best if you're already healthy or interested in working towards that. I have a lot of D/s relationship experience but not a lot of play experience. I do know what I'm into for the most part, but I have an open mind about trying new things.
About what I'm looking for: I'm always interested in meeting lifestyle friends. You can see my interests here or message to ask. Primarily, I'm interested in building a long-term relationship with someone who is interested in a 24/7 D/s (or M/s) dynamic, although I recognize this is the hardest to achieve. I'm not interested in online-only, although I'm fine with, and prefer, taking some time before meeting in person. As a side-note, by 24/7 I'm referring to a constant, implicit power exchange rather than expecting kink to prevail over the necessity of real life. I don't believe in setting an arbitrary age limit, but the chances we're a good fit go down the greater the age difference.
I'm mainly interested in a power exchange relationship where good behavior and communication are rewarded, affection is shown often, play is frequent but ultimately subject to the dominant's whims, and the need for discipline is rare yet used when necessary. I would label myself primarily a service submissive who loves to be obedient but also playful. I'm serious about submitting but I love bondage and sensation play (spanking and whipping). I wouldn't consider myself a real masochist because the lack of control over pain or pleasure is what turns me on the most, not solely the pain, and I wouldn't enjoy an experience that didn't include both pain and pleasure.
I'll leave it at that for now. Message me with any questions, but if you'd like a response, please show me the courtesy of not copy/pasting a response or only saying hello. I'm happy to offer the same in return.
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