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	Well, I decided it was time for me to revamp my profile somewhat because my situation has changed. I'm a Dominant guy living with a disability that primarily affects my breathing. People often mistake my disability as weakness, but I can assure you that people who make that presumption are mistaken. Until my breathing problems got to the point where I could no longer pass the 2.4km in 11 minutes or less required for my work, I worked in an open custody facility (low security but highly structured schedules) for young offenders. Because of this, I am very used to planning schedules and making sure that those schedules are followed. What I am looking for is someone who is naturally submissive and who wants their normal, everyday life to include a full time relationship with a Dom. I am not suggesting anything as extreme as total dehumanization or removal from society. In fact, I expect my sub will be able to earn a lot of liberties and privileges by serving me well and making me happy. I also expect my sub is intelligent enough to realize that a serving a Dom in a relationship encompasses much more than just sexual play. To those of you that call yourselves subs but are loath to follow directions outside of sex, we will not get along. Above I mentioned my former line of work. The first question most subs ask me is what their routine will be like. I refuse to give a concrete routine to a potential sub simply because so many things are subjective. What I will do is give an approximation of the proportion of the schedule I intend to assign to various activities. Note this is a weekly schedule. Although it is obvious some of these things will happen every day, not every day will involve all of these items. Also, the schedule will likely change somewhat as I get to know the sub and the sub gets to know me. Sleep - 33% Exercise - 4% Personal hygiene - 2% Household chores - 6% Meal prep - 7% Mealtimes - 7% Social time at home (excl. sex/bondage) - 10% Social time out - 6% Work (earning toward household) - 20% Sex/bondage or Free time - 6% (many subs will cringe at this small number, but it amounts to 10 hours a week, and it is subject to change depending on chemistry) I have provided a single body photo for you to see, and if we make a positive connection I will gladly share others. In this day and age of technology, I will expect you to show yourself on webcam to demonstrate that your appearance matches the physical description you give of yourself in your profile. I am happy to do the same. It's an extra layer of protection that hopefully will help to weed out fakes and flakes. If you have been searching online for any length of time you are sure to understand this.

4/8/2011 12:53:35 AM

Something that I find very curious...All these straight and bisexual men who check off the box that they are seeking men who never bother to answer when a man writes to them. Why bother checking off the box to begin with? lol

3/24/2011 4:25:12 AM

I tend to be verbose when I write to someone, and so I would rather just click on Favourite and wait for a reply from mutually interested parties. If you are a sub/slave and you see that I've marked you as a Favourite, it likely means that I find your profile photo(s) attractive and/or I find your profile text attractive. I'd also probably be willing to discuss things more in depth with you. If you like what you see/read in my profile, that is.

3/14/2011 10:16:07 PM

Some of you may have noticed that I've marked off an interest in meeting Dom and switch men as well.

As an alternative to being a single Dom with a slave, I'm also interested in being one half of a Male-Dom couple and keeping one or more slaves in our home. If you happen to be a Dom interested in a similar arrangement please contact me.