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I have 2 years experience as a Dom. I'm nowhere close to being an expert and in some instances consider myself very novice. I'm especially novice when it comes to rope or other forms of bondage, and any blood or needle play. I have tried all, but not often and not nearly enough to do so without supervision. I am easy going, fairly strong, and a probably a bit blunt if I don't know you. I am not unkind, but I am not someone that gives out platitudes like candy. If I say a kind word, I have considered it carefully. Because of that, I have few close friends. However, those I count as close are very much so. Thank you for reading this far. If I interest you, I am looking for someone eager to learn as much as I am. Exploration is my only real fetish. I love to learn and find new things that excite and titillate. I use precise language and do not like ambiguity. Again, it is a fault seen by others. I, however, do not consider it such. May all your fantasies come true, the sickest ones especially so.
9/8/2014 10:05:15 PM
I find the dichotomy of this site interesting. Is it a personals site or is it something larger? Are people looking for larger relationships that D/s, or are they just looking for kinky sex? It almost seems people are willing to lose themselves in a role, rather than express who they are through the role. Is a slave or submissive nothing more than their part in the relationship? It makes me sad, and leaves me thinking I don't know what D/s is supposed to be about. I don't want to be defined as my role or have a relationship with someone who is. I want my role to compliment and enhance the relationship, not take it over and leave nothing else. I guess I'll be the guy in the corner that everyone calls a freak. That's how this lifestyle started anyway, so wish this freak luck.
8/31/2014 11:57:13 PM
There's just something peaceful about a clear sky at night, away from city lights. A place where the sweet smell of farmland still blows, and the loudest noise is the chirping of some insect or another, still makes me smile. It reminds me of how much space there is truly out there and it humbles me to think how insignificant I am in the grand scheme of the universe. How stars live and die, planets are born and demolished, and entire galaxies and sucked into black holes without me even needing to exist. It makes me question why I feel the need to dominate anyone. It's definitely not for solely my enjoyment. I can for sure look inside myself and know that I do not want to hurt someone or control them against their wishes. I could not, in good conscience, subject a woman to that. I do, however, love to see the willing submission and ecstasies that come from a loving D/s relationship. So, I've come to realize, that I am the man I am to make a woman happy to give herself to me.... whom ever she turns out to be.
8/29/2014 8:30:27 PM
I'm just plain happy with my life. End of line.
8/21/2014 8:53:38 PM
My thoughts on D/s relationships: Relationships in the D/s community are each unique. The idea that one mold will work for any two, let alone most, is absurd. Do not let anyone tell you that your dynamic is wrong. Just like in vanilla relationships, it's up to you to make it work. So if you and your partner want to do something, and it's legal, go for it. Don't let those that practice a different kink tell you, you're doing it wrong.
stacy123123
 
 Age: 24
 Iligan city, Belgium