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Condensed - I'm a fan of good food, travel, (kinky!) sex and books. As the name would suggest, primarily submissive and *somewhat* interested in d/s, although a bit iffy on that at the moment. Open to playing the dominant role but I never switch with the same person.

Grab a drink and settle in version- Suprisingly independent, I'm not one for sharing my space or my time, which probably means for now casual play unless someone incredible comes along to convince me otherwise. I have a reasonable amount of experience and would consider myself familiar with most basic kinkster activities, willing to try a lot more of course! I have a low tolerance for the more... how to put it... flamboyant dominants. If you're "seeking" or insist on capitalising random letters (oh, you know what I mean) then I don't think we'll get along. Experience has shown that flamboyant online dom=not my cup of tea offline.

If, on the other hand, you're down to earth, like your kink but don't let it define you, are willing to try new things and are comfortable enough in your role not to demand a silly title, then let's talk.

I suppose that's it for now. Might also add: discretion is extremely important to me, as it should be to you. I don't do public play, I don't do clubs, I don't do anything that could see me outed as a perv in any way. If you need to fly your freak flag proudly then I am definitely not for you!

P.S. No form letters.

P.P.S. No married or otherwise attached men. See? I can tell if you've read my profile now (:
5/11/2009 3:45:15 AM
Hey ladies!
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You are ''somewhat'' interested in D/s?  What the hell? Why are you here calling yourself a sub?

It's like going into a video shop looking for books.

Can you explain it to me you stupid bitch?"

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That comes (entirely unprompted) from the charming "mrdobalino".

Just a heads up :)

For the geniuses on here who don't understand rejection or an assertive profile: get over it. If you are polite, and manage to not be an arse I will be polite in return even if I am not interested in you. If, on the other hand, you are rude and don't read my profile I will block you and/or report you. I think I'll also post your details on this blog as a public service.

5/9/2009 8:10:11 PM
I feel I should update this. Old entry looks a little lonely by itself.

Anyhoo! Making kinky stuff... is it that difficult? I was buying some unkinky things this weekend and realised (uh, duh?) that leather is not some magical mystery substance conjured up by the bdsm gods, that it is something I could probably work with on a very basic level at the moment. I'm not sure if this is a very realistic aim? I mean, I like quality and I know that cheap, badly made toys are going to be useless in after a few goes. Either they're going to fall apart after a few uses or simply not going to be very effective from the start.

So... obviously if I *do* find myself interested in any of this I'll start off making useless floggers and other fun things whose quality doesn't even begin to compare to even the cheapest sex shop counter display toy. Which bothers me... I know there's a learning curve but at least with my other crafty hobbies, sewing and knitting, I was able to sign up for classes and ask friends for help. I was thinking perhaps a leather class was worth it, but then, I don't particularly want to make anything except pervy stuff (: I've googled but all the tutorials show really ugly finished pieces. I am a showpony! I must have pretties! So does anybody have pointers? Might taking a class in leatherwork be worth my while? I'm just not sure whether I'll end up being bored out of my skull learning how to make a belt or a little purse, or whatever 'my first leather project' happens to be.

In other news, please don't make a new nick or ask your sad little girlfriend to send me a message after I've blocked you. It's pretty simple for me to see "blahblahblah whingey d/om/M here desperate to get the last word and feel big". Guess what I do? I delete those messages after reading the first line or two. Think your cunning plans through next time guys. I guess I've had the last word, both in email and on this blog as we all know you'll be doubly irritated and rush to view my profile again. and again. and again (: I'm so mean!
5/2/2009 11:25:19 PM
Not sure I want to make it easier for... unpleasant... people to charm me.

secretme85
 
 Age: 25
 Hastings, Minnesota