Very passionate, sensual submissive looking for my perfect dominant. No, he need not be perfect, only perfect for me.

First... to get the 'bad' stuff out of the way... physical appearance may be an issue, I am currently BBW but am on the path to finding the 'self' that was lost during the recovery of a medical issue (now resolved). I am seeking One to be supportive and encouraging of my journey back to physical fitness and health without being domineering and autocratic.

Now, if you've got this far and are actually interested in learning more....

I am sensual... and prefer sensual relationships and play, beginning with emotional capture and intellectual stimulation. The mind is my most active sex organ. I am interested in connections that stimulate my intellect, my humour, my emotion as well as my body.

I am an adventurous and very open minded individual. There isn't too much you might suggest that I would be opposed to... in any part of our walk in life. I have learned that life's circumstances can be changed in the blink of an eye, and therefore wish to minimize any drama, conflict, and drudgery... preferring to laugh, explore and enjoy every last moment.

The One I am seeking is intelligent, honest, has a super sense of humour, strength, integrity and is completely comfortable with himself and his dominance. He will not need me to define nor prove his dominance, he desires me by his side to compliment it.

To balance out his dark and very deviant side, he is fun, and can be gentle when he chooses.... perhaps even on occasion, a romantic. He knows when to treat me as his lady, and when to treat me as his whore. He must be able to stimulate me intellectually as well as sexually. He understands the concept of a power exchange being an exchange, and is willing to inspire me to submit completely to him. He is a man that finds his own path and heads off to explore life needing no one but me to follow him.

I am not a pain slut, preferring the mental and sensual over abject pain. I am also not into protocols and formality. I do not accept the 'punishment' dynamic and expect an adult/adult relationship based on mutual respect and high levels of communication. If you use terminology such as 'stern', or 'strict' to describe yourself, or see 'punishment' of any kind as a tool within your desired relationship, I will not be a good match.

Confidence, creativity, communication, and anticipation turn me on. Someone strong, confident, dominant...is an equal match for me in daily life, and what I seek in a romantic mate. It's the man that makes the difference, and for the right man anything of mine is his for the taking.