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In the past, I've been moderately active in the local kink / swinger scene but moved away from it due to personal relationships and work. I'm a huge fan of anything BDSM related! I feel like my sex drive never faded away since my teenage years. Small things like a sensual touch or flirting still turns me on. The right amount of pain and pleasure, power dynamics and being in the right mind set during a session is what makes me love BDSM. New activities, toys, people and ideas keep BDSM new and interesting for me. I usually identify as a "switch" but has been a submissive for the past couple of years. I know it causes confusion, but I think it's just how my brain and body works! Not long after I first started kink, I partnered with a female submissive who I've learned lots from. Most recently in late 2017, I ended an one year D/s relationship as a live-in sub with a Dominant man. I like to keep an open mind when it comes down to kink because I never know what I might like. Length of relationship, partner characteristics and even number of partners are all things I am open to and willing to consider. Outside the world of BDSM, I'm a boring person! My friends describe me as geeky and sometimes quiet. I live alone in a large apartment and likes to spend my time reading or playing instruments. I work at a travel agency but also help teach dance classes.