Professional Dommes
First of all, when I am talking about professionals I mean Dom's who charge a fee for their service as Dom. I am not talking about financial domination, black mail or other forms of domination where the money transfere is in focus.
I am no stranger to using professionals both in real life or online. I see this as me buying a service from the professional, and do not compere this to lifestyle BDSM or D/s relationships. This is because as a customer and the paying part, I am in charge of what is happening and how long it is going to go on. (because he/she can stop the payment wich is the basis of the interaction)
I have visited Dominatrixs in real life, but I prefer Humiliatrixes and it is also the only service I am willing to pay for online.
What kind of services do I prefer from a Pro-Humiliatrix
*Interegation sessions I am unable to lie and have to answer all questions. This is a very good way for the Humiliatrix to get to know me and build up her future attacks on my personality and life.
*Punchingbag sessions Where I serve as an outlet for the frustration and anger the Humiliatrix is feeling. These are usualy arranged by the Humiliatrix when she needs the outlet.
*Task sessions Meetings where the Humiliatrix either give me tasks I perform for her there, or tasks I have to perform before our next meeting, or where i present the tasks I have completed sense last meeting. These tasks can be anything, but the deepest humiliation comes from when they are far outside my expertise/comfort zone and if they are completly useless
I am sure there are many other ways of doing these kind of things, but this is what have worked best for me in the past.
Hopefully I will meet friends and Doms who would like to have me serve them and would find pleassure in humiliating me without me having to pay them for it, but so far I have not been so lucky. |