I'm not sure if there is anyone out there in the same situation. By day I'm a pretty normal guy… early 40s tall, in a professional role, and considered attractive, or at least so I've been told. I am in a relationship with a beautiful woman who I deeply care for. I've had a number of interesting over the top experiences in my younger years that have left a taste for things that I hope to share with someone from this site. These have formed a large part of my fantasy life that I have yet to share in more detail with anyone… There isn’t much you could tell me that would shock me … And the more unusual or extreme the more I'd actually be interested… What I’m really looking for is the quiet lurker or the one who isn’t likely to post her pic or lots of discussion. Perhaps someone like me who has that deep seated lust but the cautious need to tread carefully …. the stories and profiles fueling the lusts. Crossing the line from fantasy to reality would be conscious and careful decision for me. And whoever I chose to meet with would have to be able to shift back and forth from her real life to whatever kind of friendship that we establish. Right now themes that are of particular interest are age play, incest disclosure and abuse scene role play, infantilization, punishment, oral training, psychological and physical humiliation….my interests change over time and I would be interested in hearing about your interests… Surprise me by emailing me with your interests….and while age, size are less important then your attitude and interests, please do let me know a bit about you in your reply. Victoria is a small city so mutual discretion is expected and assured.