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velvettiger

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Intelligent, well educated, attractive, sane, straight sub (occasionally switch), seeks similar qualities in a either a female domme or switch, as a friend and play partner. I am in a vanilla long term relationship, with all the responsibilities and issues that brings, she doesn't share my interest for bdsm, but is aware of it. Someone in a similar situation would be a bonus. Discretion, understanding, trust, openness and honesty are essential attributes. I've had many years real life experience more at the erotic edge than the hardcore; however had tried quite a few things over the years. I started off dominant many years ago, then switched, now at present more submissive. (Then ended up in a long term vanilla relationship, like many people.) I'm looking for just one person (not a string of many), with matching requirements to get to know first with a view to finding that play partner. If you are as fussy as me, that'll be ideal! I'm not massively into "the lifestyle", nor muches or the like - just real life with kink, exploration, erotic excitment and imagination. Contact caveats - no one-liners, no people lookng for a "quick shag" (nothing could interest me less), and if you can't string an intelligent sentence together, please move along now. In a nutshell: quality! In respose to a few odd replies: I do like to get to know people in detail first, what makes them tick etc. If you aren't one for many words, or email exchange (at least to begin with), I'm probably not for you. Oh, and finally, I'm a non-smoker.