This might offend some..but sometimes the uglier the man, the worse attitude he has. It is not being hurt..i get that, but to lash out to all females because of some nasty women..how is that fair? Maybe someone will see thought your exterior and see the beauty inside, but if you are extolling a barrage of hatefulness in profile, even the most handsome man would look unappealing.

Be Real or Be Gone...ohhh...scarryyyeeeee.

Okay, so let's say this is what you write, but then you read the profile, and these men, most of them, must be living in a BDSM fantasy land.

Keep on reading the stories..there is nothing real about you, fella. 

When did living a BDSM oriented life eschew the normal things we expect in most relationships? I never knew that people, even if doormats are robots with only sex on their minds. 

Pretty girl. I think some of women on here are using porn or lingerie pics. Others look real, and I am sure some are that gorgeous and perfect and have had twenty people work on them. I guess it is all fine..what matters is how you connect with someone when you meet.

I do not have an issue with how I look. I am pretty and  have been told enough times. I think it is a bit sad when people have to post fake pics of themselves and then the man goes to meet this woman and it is totally different.

Why lead someone one, why be fake. If you are not comfortable with yourself..what makes you think a man is going to be.

Of course, no women are reading this post..so it is kind of wasted. 

There are men who like BBW, slim girls, short, tall..etc. Most fill find a well proportioned woman with a pleasant face appealing. Quite understandable.

But really..setting up fake pics of yourself using a glamour model..tacky.

I am not looking to be part of a stable, just a stable partner. LOL.

I am not sure why if people are still obsessed or something unhealthy with an ex-partner, why do they keep on looking to others to fill that void, but never really appreciating the present person, but instead idealising either positive or negative a former partner.

If you are not over your ex--get some therapy and stop bringing others into the vortex of your f-up life. It is not fair to the new partner, or potential ones.

Lastly, I do not to be part of a stable of whores..maybe some women are into that, but it eventually fails because all too often there is deception and mistrust. 

That does not mean I have an issue with polyamory, but really, most of these people are not polyamorous, they are feeding their selfish ego.

Stuff it if you do not agree with my assessment..i have seen enough of it, so this does not come from some theory, but real life experience and observation.  I am not here to coddle fake egos. 

I am extremely happy to please genuine dominants and men.

i just wanted to let people know i cannot do chat on this site...for some reason it "screws" up my connection.

Kindly send an email.

Oh..and one more thing..i am overwhelmed by the email messages..thank you!!!

I will try to work through the messages.

Thanks again!

I was catching up with a dear friend of mine today. We have not spoken in a while, but it did not seem to matter. She is a fellow submissive as well. It's been far too long since i have spoken with another like minded individual about my interests.

I have expressed them in tame terms to some of my vanilla friends, but they seem to think that being a submissive entails merely kink.

Hmm..well, many people, both males and females, whether dominant or submissive think that spanking, being bound up, and a few other actions is where it is at.

I do not feel moved by such behaviours..if there is not a D/s dynamic, one can enjoy them at a surface level, but you can never really be touched deep down.

I am a submissive. I never needed kink, fancy outfits, or outings at alternative clubs to attain that. It comes naturally to me. However, in vanilla life, i tend to be accomodating and can take charge if need be, but i prefer people to work together in a project or preferabley, each person doing their own thing. I do not like to take the lead.

I am not a passive person per se.  Just know where i belong is at the literal and figurative feet of my future master..that is all.

There are alot of interesting people on this website. I am excited about that. Some are far too extreme for my tastes, but over to each their own. I tend to be rather wary of people who seem to have alot of bitterness and anger with people. Get some therapy.

Overall, i tend to be a positive person, but like most I hope to think, I have my down days or moments as well. I enjoy things in life, and do not want to be with someone who is morose or too serious. I thought i was attracted to that type, but they are very hard to get to know.

I love D/s quite a bit. While I think kinks are fun and of course, feel good, the essense of the real thrill lies in domination and submission.

I like a lot of different dynamics, and have been developing a strong interest in finding someone who enjoys being a Daddy Dominant.

Enjoy your day, and happy hunting.