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I am back on the search for a long term relationship. I have had a few friends that were just "play partners" that wanted to explore the idea of bondage(one loved being the object of desire of a friend and I...without being sexually involved...just nudity and fuzzy cuffs)...i have a collection of rope and various sensual toys in my arsenal....but the world of dating is still too vanilla for me. I don't like the edge play..so no bloodletting, not really into piss...but love a good squirter when I find one. I am more curious about a long term or regular friend with benefit rather than a lot of different acquaintances. It is nice having someone to call up and grab a bite to eat...and then going back and sharing the rest of the night together. I've been able to travel some with work, and the possibility of relocating is very good if you can tell me from a submissive perspective what it is you are wanting.
I am open to poly...financially and emotionally....I find that a poly household works well...without going into details. I work in human resources and computer/IT.
I am a nonsmoker, and like to live a healthy lifestyle...I used to work out at the gym almost every day, but my current schedule doesn't allow that, so I take every chance I can get to get to get back in shape. I like the outdoors, and hiking and camping are fun diversions, but I find more practical uses for my talents are better...I like working with wood and leather. I also love history...historical places draw my inner love of Americana.

I am drawn to the girl next door types...a person that can let their hair down and feel comfortable in jeans and tshirt as much as getting dressed up once in a while. Nonsmokers/light drinkers are my main preference.

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1/18/2015 3:15:36 AM
I find that i have to constantly revise what it is that i seek in a partner, since there is a good chance the person I am seeking is "out there" somewhere. I have a history of dating the short term girl that doesn't want to settle down, then finds someone that is a doctor or lawyer, and gets married 2 weeks later(what's up with that?)

I was more the guy that all the girls in high school liked to hang out with, do homework with, and call up...but not necessarily date...I am the surrogate big brother, i s'pose. I do have a daughter, and an ex that live in another state...they aren't much in the picture and haven't been for a while. I like to keep my social life low profile anyways, since my family is sort of prudish and have outed me for being divorced...go figure, huh???

I dated a bifemale gal that was really cool after I got a divorce, and she was not a barbie...or any high maintenance type girl...she just liked to hang out in sweats when she wasn't working or at the gym. She and I had an understanding, that if she wanted to go out, she just left me a note, and it was a great system. One time, she shared that she was bi but she didn't want anything to do with a threesome or anything like that, but she was hanging out with her girlfriend sometimes who was really cute and sexy. She asked me one time if I would ever consider dating her friend...I think it was more a "what is wrong with my cute sexy friend that she can't find a guy to date???" Soooo, she felt sorry for her, and sometimes we had dinner and social fun things on the town as a trio....and then her roommate ran into some trouble with her l iving situation...sort of weird...but she needed to crash on the air mattress in our apartment for a while, and things started getting strange. We all shared the bathroom, which isn't a big deal...i grew up with two sisters and our house was always about structured schedules...I took my shower the night before, and the girls would shower the next moring...I got hot water, and they sometimes found it hit or miss...lol. Anyhow, we had the netflix thing going, a box of wine(can't remember the kind), and some popcorn going, and she started flirting with me in front of my girlfriend...kissing me...and grabbing my pants crotch...which I have to admit sort of turned me on. Most guys are super sensitive when it comes to the no dating the girlfriend's best friend...and I was raised that way I suppose. I think most girls do this to their guys to see if they are going to be faithful to them...sort of an insecurity thing. My girlfriend started laughing...and pulled my pants down in front of her...and started kissing my ...ahem...anyhow...she was turned on by watching her girlfriend having fun with me...and I didn't know anything about this sort of kink until she started encouraging me to do this...and before I knew it she was sitting there..holding my waist from behind and watching as her girlfriend went down on me...and then she wanted to see me screwing her...so I asked my friend about this at work and he said that it was a kink called cuckqueening...girls liked to feel safe with a guy and if they like them...they get turned on by watching their girlfriends or friends being sexual partners to their boyfriends...and I have to say I enjoyed it.  SO...a big fetish of mine is to find a long term girlfriend that isn't too high maintenance, doesn't need to do drugs, smoke...and wants to occasionally share my amorous side with their girlfriends.

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JuiciKrisi
 
 Age: 25
 Los angeles, California