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I am single, totally gay, and open to all possibilities. I am naturally more dominant than submissive, but I'm definitely a switch. I want a versatile or bottom partner for a long term relationship. I'm not perfect and I'm not looking for perfection. Attitude and compatibility are much more important than looks.
Here's the complicated part. My sub/bottom side is currectly being more than taken care of on a very regular basis. The connection is great, but he can only be NSA, and therefore, I'm still looking for a relationship. I'm not looking for a casual hook up with a top unless it's as a co-top. And yet, I'm still looking to learn from and expert CBT top.
If you're looking for, or open to a relationship, everything is on the table.
I'm into dom/sub protocols. I've only been into kink for four years and I have no idea whether I can switch with the same person, but I am highly adaptable. I also don't know whether I want kink in a LTR, but I am open to exploring it all. While I am naturally more dominant, when I sub, I am not looking to top from the bottom. That's no fun.
I'm not into leath*r, rubb*r, spand*x, sp0rts, s0cks, suits, or other fetish gear (clothing). That is, I don't own any gear other than a leather vest. I have to admit, a guy in leather looks hot. I just don't see myself in it. If you want to put me in it, that's cool. I am into equipment and toys. Nothing elaborate. I'm not into rope work as art, but bondage is necessary to go past what one's reflexes would otherwise allow. I'm an endorphin fanatic.
Role play can be interesting, but is not necessary. I certainly don't want a steady diet of that.
I need no excuse to hurt you; that I enjoy it is reason enough. I do need your consent. Likewise on the flip side.
I am mobile, but hardly ever travel, and rarely have more than Sunday off. I can always host, but apartment life means no screaming or shouting. The bedroom hardly transforms into a dungeon, but I make do.
Safety first. I'm HIV negative and must stay that way. I love my poz brothers, but can't take the small risk that accompanies even safer sex with an poz top.
No bl00d, no sc@t, no permanent marks. Safe, Sane, and Consensual. I respect limits.
I regret that I don't wr3stle. After multiple hernias, I must avoid that hot, sweaty struggle.
All men are equal. Dominant and submissive cannot exist without each other. Respect is a two-way street. I may be a daddy, but you are not a son. I can be boy to a guy 20 years my junior. I do not chase after younger guys, but I am good with beginners. I prefer guys at least 39. I also prefer guys who do not wish to be feminized. Men's clothing or none at all.
Keywords: Respect, consent, no drugs, discretion, service, domination, affection, bonding, sucking, rimming (clean), fucking, condoms, toys, clothespins, flogging, spanking, CBT, TT, humiliation, watersports, e-stim, bondage, (breathable) gags, collars, blindfolds, sounding, wax, enemas, figging, nipples, tickling, Sir/boy, rewards, feet, kissing, massage.
Curious about: Rope, short term mummification, dungeon play.
Limits: F*sting, pierc*ng, slav*ry, permanent marks, long lasting (more than a week) visible marks, sh@ving, duct tape, sm0ke (when hosting), bastin@do, pun*ching, bre@th play.
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