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| My sub recently moved away to continue her education so I am seeking a new sub. I enjoy training someone new as well so I am definitely open to someone who is "sub curious" and eager to learn.
A lot of Doms on this site (and on the internet in general) will act like every sub must obey them from the first email. That is ridiculous. Many also view being a Dom as an excuse to be an asshole. That, too, miss the point. A submissive owes a dominant nothing before she freely chooses to give herself to him. The Dom should prize that submission like the precious gift that it is. Of course, there is a time and a place (and way) for being demanding, controlling, and even sometimes harsh. But not as a knee jerk action or a character flaw. Rather, the Dom should act in calculated and measured ways that are grounded in a fundamental respect for a desire to train and care for his submissive. Also, a submissive should not be a thoughtless doormat. Submission requires deep strength and strong communication. I find intelligence very attractive in a sub. It makes the choice to submit all the more meaningful.
But don't mistake my respectfulness and maturity for weakness. I know how to impose my will. So while I respect hard limits, I delight in stretching (and at times obliterating) comfort zones. Of course, that depends on the submissive, our relationship, limits, etc.
I am happy to share a picture if you think you might be interested, but prefer to share it via message or email. So let me know if you are interested.
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