About me
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I will begin by saying that I am a Cancerian

Not that I have any particular interest in astrology, really. To be honest I am more into astronomy and stargazing than daily horoscopes, but by saying that I am a Cancer I am preparing you, dear readers of these lines, for some duality and conflicting thoughts.

Still reading? Ok.

Professionally, I work in an office and have a very 'vanilla' career. I work hard and play hard.

Personally, I am a very open, communicative person on and off the internet. I love meeting new people, talking with them, exploring diverse viewpoints. I am curious by nature, I love learning new things and I cherish all of my experiences, good and bad. I had fair share of both and they made me who I am today. Oh, and I am a realistic hedonist. "Enjoy life as much as it is realistically possible". Yes, I am talking about responsibility and planning ahead.

Sexually, I think I could call myself a "sexual submissive". I have found that definition on the "internet" a long time ago and, upon reading, it seemed to describe me rather well.

I am not going to talk about any particulars or specifics regarding my sexuality, you can easily see all that in my profile. I might just add that even though I have selected my likes and dislikes, I tend to be open to trying out things at least once before forming a stance or an opinion.


What can I offer?
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Before anything else - Friendship.
I am a strong believer that friendship is ground base for everything else that gets on top in layers. I can't imagine a being a boyfriend without being a friend, a husband without being a boyfriend (see the logic here?), etc... The same goes for BDSM. I see BDSM relationship as a "regular" relationship with expanded borders and additional flavors. It must have the same common grounds with vanilla relationships, only we in BDSM world get to have more fun!
:)

Communication.
If you can't talk with me and if I can't talk with you, then how are we going to work it all out? Ordering around and obeying orders goes as far, but you can't have a healthy and lasting relationship without communication.

Support.
Any kind of support that I would provide to all of my friends, and then some more. Support is non-specific thing in my case. It can be hearing your troubles and offering my help, giving you a hug after a long and stressful day or a kick in the butt when you start being lazy. I am not a rich man and I cannot support you financially, but that does not mean that I wouldn't enjoy buying you a beautiful dress that we just saw in the window, like any gentleman would for his Lady.

Trust.
Last but definitely not the least. Trust is ESSENTIAL. I do not, repeat DO NOT, believe a person saying "I love you" and at the same time not trusting me. Been there, done that. Thank you very much. If I can't trust you and you can't trust me, then we will spend our time and energy in worry, jealousy and doubt. That is not the life I want to live. I give full trust unless convinced otherwise.

Fun.
Oh, I love fun. I love to experience fun in all of its forms. Life without fun is, well, no fun.

Submission.
"My dear Watson, you have always had a gift for stating the obvious."
- Sherlock Holmes



What am I looking for ?
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whipp me mistress, crush me wit ur heelz and make me skvirm like a worthles worm dat im. mistress? hello?

Just kidding.

:)

Really, what am I looking for?

Everything, actually. I want it all. I am looking for exactly the same thing as I am offering, except submission. I don't know how that would work out, with two submissives. Then again, stranger things have happened...

I think this will say it all:

I am a Knight looking for my special Lady, someone to fight for and die for, who will be my inspiration, my strength and my weakness.
I am a King looking for my Queen. Leader of men, ruler of his realm, finding his peace, comfort and guidance in the realm of his Queen.
I am an Adventurer, freedom fighter and man of many roads, looking for a companion to keep me on the leash so that I don't lose myself.

And they lived happily ever after.

The End